I am not posting this for bragging right but as proof that when you work hard enough €42,000 can be made in one month. Now if will listen here are some tips. (Proof is in the blog banner). 1- Stop complaining about how little you are making. A potential sub is not going to look at you as someone he/she wants to support. The people you will attract will be ones who will also complain abouy life instead of lifting you up. 2- Take the time to make content. I will have photo shoots with my own...

afindommesdiary.com A Tribute A Day Keeps The Timewasters Away? Any Findomme has probably received many DM's from submissives wanting to talk, yet not wanting to tribute first. They might say 'oh I have been scammed before so I just want to chat first.' or they might not say anything at all and they will just keep talking. However, when you see these 'submissives' they almost always expect verification from a Findomme. Most Findommes offer various forms of verification. However, why can th...

There comes a time when our subs lose their way...get lost. They lose focus on themselves and need to find themselves again. We as their Mistresses must guide them, nurture them and communicate with them. Let them know we are there for them no matter what the circumstances are. That our time with them is crucial to the D/s relationship that we build with them. Making sure they know we are there for them no matter how far apart we are from them, time of day, or communication method. The trust the...

So... as it turns out, I talk a lot in person, but online it is clearly a lot for me to do! I'm currently traveling across the Americas with husband (also a Dom) and we're having a ball! Just no time for play, or anywhere we can go for social meets/munches and have some fun. Gutted we didn't bring any of our toys... All has to be done online.  I miss the Findom aspect of it, as I got heavily into the Lifestyle thing a while back. Financial domination didn't rank high enough on my kinks. Bu...

Want to serve ? Want to be owned? Want to be taken seriosuly and trusted? These things have to be earned! These things take time and effort,I will not let just anyone serve me,I will not just own you it is a process,it is about trust and commitment,you have to show me you can be trusted,that you can do as you have been asked  You have to impress me and show me you are worth my time,ownerhsip and service are things that are not entered into lightly,there is no set or specific time scale in ...

I keep seeing so many dominants hit the scene and the first thing they say is "Tribute before you speak". So sure that will happen for a small amount of time. New submissives will message without doing much research thinking this is the only way to do so. Then sub or Domme screams "Timewaster or fake" because they don't see eye to eye in the first 5 minutes. We have all seen it. We all know it has happened. It is a clear indicator that things need to change. For the new Domme reading this:...

Words are cheap and have no meaning to me with no actions behind them or to back them up I recieve messages asking to serve me,asking for sessions with me,offering me money and so on but until I have recieved anything I won't take any of them seriosuly let alone consider you in any way,if you want my time and attention I need to see that you can deliver ,a promise alone will never be enough ,you need to show me it is not all empty gestures It is easy to tell me what you think I want to hea...

 Submission is more than a title,it is a state of mind ,it is something to be embraced and explored  Submission is also a gift and should be handled with care,it is a bond between 2 people,when a sub approaches me they are putting their trust in me,they are opening up and showing me a side they may feel they can't show any one else,they are embracing their true self,they are trusting me to not abuse them or judge them,it is a wonderul gift to give and recieve  Submission is not something t...

Whether you are dominant or submissive things are often a 2 way street Honesty is something that is of high importance to me,I expect any sub that contacts me to be 100% honest about everything from kinks to hard limits,how much they can afford to tribute and everything inbetween,however it works both ways,I can not expect that honesty without returning it,I like anyone have likes and dislikes,there is things I will not do and ,I have limits,if I feel the sub is not a fit for me or that I don...

I get this often enough so I will see if I can clear this up here. Traits: ...

"Sit dear and make yourself comfortable while I mold and play with your mind. It could be a wild ride. Are you ready?" *snaps fingers* Your body automatically obeys as this isn't the first time I have played with your mind today. I have already put ideas and seeds of thought in your head all day. Sending messages about my daily life.  ...