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by on June 15, 2020
Owned by Goddess CopperLotus   ...
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by on June 14, 2020
To me it have never been about to find the perfect submissive, the most well behaved or experienced. Because neither of that will ever compare to a true connection. Personal chemistry is by far underrated. I think that any submissive can become the perfect little pet under the right guidance. First you have to learn how to guide them correctly.   As humans we all have different needs and wishes, but the trick is to find out what lies behind the words they say, the ways they act and react. ...
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by on June 13, 2020
  I've been finding it crucial during this time to make an extra effort to stay connected. I also enjoy being able to support as many local business( specifically black owned) as I can. I am blessed enough to able to support myself during this time, & I wanted to  share some resources with you.      ...
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by on June 13, 2020
For once I am not sure how to start out a blog lol Its been well over a year since I have written. so I guess I will start it off with saying ....Im backkkkkkk lol. The past year has been a crap year for Me sub wise, I say this due to the fact I had two long term subs get gravely ill, one with stomache cancer and the other with prostate cancer, both having  passed away within months of each other which left me devastated.( not looking for a pity party) and questioning a lot of things, both...
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by on June 9, 2020
I prefer the term "Ms.".  The term “Ms.” is used when you are not sure of a woman's marital status, if the woman is unmarried and over 30 or if she prefers being addressed with a marital-status neutral title.  I am definitely over 30. I am not a fan of my marital status having any bearing on my title. "Lady, Madame, or MLady" can be used by newer submissives wanting my consideration.  ...
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by on June 7, 2020
Wow... Can you believe it's only been a month!? SO MUCH has happened! The moon is now in Sagittarius, and I am feeling that fiery energy! Black Lives Matter I would be remiss in My duties as a Leftist and honestly as a compassionate human being in general if I didn't address the current protests in the United States over the murder of George Floyd by the police. Anyone who follows Me on Twitter will know that I am 100% on the side of the protesters. No, I am not going to argue with you abo...
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by on June 5, 2020
Further edit: I have surgery next week so will be back in a month to restart this. Until then. Edit: I am now sick so will resume this in a few days. Stay tuned! In my Slave Contract to Mistress Pauley, I offered to spend one week, 7 days, each month in devotion to her. This is the first day for June, 2020 and is concerned with Worship. ...
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by on May 30, 2020
Hey, Findoms! It's me again, back with another blog post about the intersection of gender and kink. What could go wrong, right?   It's a subject I love to think about, though. What does it mean to be "male" or "female?" What is masculine, and what is feminine? Where is the line drawn between "straight" and "queer?" Often, particularly in kink scenes, these questions come up even when we aren't actively thinking about them. ...
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by on May 29, 2020
I have always loved the idea of having a slave come to my home and do all the cleaning while I sit on my computer and drink my coffee. This would be a slave I trusted and more importantly that earned the right to come into my home. Then after we would go do errands like go grocery shopping (he pays), then the cleaners, etc. The poor little guy would be so tired by the end of the day but it would be one of the happiest days of his life. He would have a very tiring drive home. It sounds hot to me....
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by on May 29, 2020
The short and honest answer is no, it is about more than money for me, it is about the enjoyment, the pleasure, the excitement I get, the connections I build, the freedom to be as creative as possible and the chance to be my natural, dominant self I have turned down money many times, this can be because I don't like the subs attitude or because I don't share the same kink or maybe we don't click, the point is if this was just about the money and money was all I cared about things such as atti...
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by on May 28, 2020
Amazon is what I consider to be a fairly 'safe' tool to be used in financial domination but, as with everything, knowing certain tricks and precautions can enhance your experience.   ...
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by on May 23, 2020
My new 2 year Slave Contract is below. Changes from past years are: 1) Due to the stock market drop, slave's spending on Mistress Pauley has been reduced. The body of the contract was not changed but the new spending is described in Additions 1 and 2. 2) Orgasm Denial has been loosened so slave may infrequently ask Mistress Pauley for release. This is due to medical issues. ...
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