I have always been more aroused by kink and fetish than I ever have by anything vanilla  (not that I am saying there is anything wrong with vanilla of course)  There is something about the exchange of power, something I can not begin to put into words, watching over time as subs become weaker and fall deeper into pleasing me, watching a sub squirm or beg for attention, the look on a subs face when they know they have pleased you or when you have told them they have done a good job  The exc...

For the last few days, I have had a lot of submissives approaching for debt games.  I wanted to be clear that my games are not always as easy as you make think. I will deliberately add twists that are agreed ahead of time to add suspension and anticipation to my games. What I enjoy the most is a damn good laugh in this kinky world and a creative spirit.  Here are my rules: First off introduce yourself. Take the time to tell me: ...

I have seen subs jump into being owned or Dommes owning subs and it rarely works out, why? Because it was rushed into You have to be willing to wait and give things  time. I will not own someone I barley know anything about, I need to ensure that we are on the same page, that the sub has worked hard and proved he is worth my time and attention, that he will follow through with what he says, none of this is going to happen over night. If a sub is asking me how long it will take to earn my trus...

You want to loosen up a submissive's resolve. A few strong drinks should open that wallet. Right? Do you know how to do this safely? Do you know the risks? What are your safety protocols? There are questions you need to ask prior to the first drink.  *How much do they Weigh?- You need this to be able to figure out a safe limit. The body can only process about one drink an hour. One serving is defined as: ...

Update from My blog at Mistress Kiara's Dungeon: https://mistresskiarasdungeon.com/2020/10/more-amazing-news-first-public-nude/ It’s October, which has always been My favorite month. Obviously I’m a goth girl at heart and I just LOVE dressing up and doing fun makeup for Halloween! But being a Pagan, there’s also Samhain to look forward to! I’ll do a more in-depth blog about the Witch’s New Year later I’m sure. But I also love the milder temperatures, not needing to run the air conditioner,...

Serious question, do submissives think that Domme's don't talk to each other? And NO I do not mean gossip, I mean do they not think we as peers do not form genuine and sincere friendships outside of kink as well as inside kink?   I am not the type to personally go around and whisper unsolicited advice in someone's ear if I think a submissive is worthy of their time - different strokes for different folks. However, if another Domme comes to me as a peer or as a friend and asks me - I will g...

I sit across the table from you, tolerating your idle small talk, resisting the urge to roll my eyes at your pathetic, not quite subtle enough attempts to get into my pants.  Dinner, while delicious, can't be over quickly enough.  I've always hated this part, pretending to be interested, leading them on just enough to keep them oblivious.  The check comes, the server places it on the table.  I arch an eyebrow at you, and you gleefully pick up the tab, thinking that you're buying your ticket.  We...

I seem to come across the whole fighting the urge to submit thing quite a lot and it got me thinking why? In my opinion there could multiple reasons why, maybe the sub is scared of how they feel, maybe they don't want to accept that they are submissive,perhaps they see submission as a weakness (which it is not), they could worry what others think, but sometimes to be honest I also think it is said to get attention. But why would I think it is attention seeking? Because to be blunt it can c...

I had a bad habit of taking it too personally when I thought there was a line of healthy communication and a sub would flake without a word. Not because of the money, money can always be made. There's always another sub dying to take that place. But because it’s rude, it made me angry.   I’ve come to realize though over the years, past that cliché “it’s their loss” mentality - why am I expending my precious emotions on another person who just proved they’re unworthy of them in the first pl...

Oh Sweeties what did I tell you boring subs aren’t worth anyone’s time or any amount of money! When you step into a Dommes DM’s you need to understand you are here to entertain them! If you have anything other than that on your agenda why are you here? You are clearly not a submissive of any kind. So let's maybe just call you a charlatan! Lol   But on a serious note, remember to not let me deceive you. When you approach me, anything I do is a test. Every single thing so be on your guard. I...