Reading someones profile is so important. I have had so many people on FetLife tell me lately that they have read my profile, but then not had a clue that I am financial dominatrix, or I am married or any other important things. It is all there children. Please do make an effort because if you don't, how on earth am I to take you seriously? I mean you are serious aren't you? Because I can't understand why you would even message me otherwise. I am a serious woman, being playful doesn't nega...

They may be elusive, they may be cautious and they may be slow to warm up, but when they do.... you know you are in for something spectacular! The feti-shy as I call them can be hard to track down, hard to win the trust of and you may find them lurking on and off for a very long time, but when they do take the plunge and approach... it’s beautiful. They tend to only approach on their own when they are ready and when they are certain, which makes them sincere. If you treat these precious li...

So you thought you would hang around a Dommes page for a while. You love her posts, her pictures, her style, her attitude. You don't want the pressure of approach you just want to watch her and feel part of her life right? I know I get you and do you know what? That is okay! Lurking is a very important part of our ritual, how on earth do I expect you to get a feel for me, understand me and start imagining fitting into my world, if you cant see it, get a feel for it, see what you could have...

I have not been able to go to any conventions this year. I miss going to the different classes and learning about new kinks or different ways of doing things I already do. I would love to see people on here step up and maybe do some masterclasses, well Mistress classes, on things they are good at. We could do classes and Q&A sessions in the chat room. Perhaps have them one night or day a week?   I know I would love to learn more about filming techniques. I am always up for new Shabari less...

Just incase you hadn't noticed I am a Financial Dominatrix. Yes that title is thrown around very loosely these day in the form of 'instadomming'.  When I talk about financial Domination though, I am of course talking about that amazing space between two compatible kinksters where power exchange occurs.  I am not sticking my middle finger up, whilst shouting "Fuck you, pay me". I am sat on my throne, listening to you tell me why I could possibly want your servitude. Why I should accept your...

How divine must it be to serve, to devote yourself utterly to such a phenomenal deity. Trusting her, letting her inside your mind. She crawls under every inch of your skin... pulses through every single vein....and claws at every single nerve and fibre. Beautiful, seductive, enticing. How could you resist? Better question why are you resisting? You think too much, thats why you are here. You don't want to think, you want someone to think for you, don't you? Then let me.... ....Let me do al...

this topic was sparked in the chatroom while talking to a sub. i thank this sub for the convo and for me to be able to write about it. it got me thinking....well a sub should have respect as well. talking to them is a way to get to know them obviously but to see if you click with that sub. even if you dont, you learned a few things about who they are as a person. which is important of course. if you dont give them the respect they deserve then you'll never know if they are right for you. they ar...

People have certain expectations. A new Domme might be completely new to the kink or how online submission works. Perhaps, they saw a video or heard from another person how easy it is to get money from a submissive. When that doesn't happen immediately, they might throw up their hands and in frustration write something on like "subs are all time-wasters". Let me be clear. The only person that can waste your time, is you. Dommes are strong and independent. We are the masters of ourselves. We dete...

I should contact Ms. Pauley Belle every day but I am ashamed to say I do not. So I developed language in my slave contract to make sure I do that. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Slave will contact Mistress daily through email or chat. Tributes, gifts, blog posts and the like do not count but covering emails will. ...

I was enraptured by the great Goddess Morrigan several years ago. She has been the most constant Domme ever in my life and has been with me through some very turbulent ups and downs. She did not leave me to flounder as some probably would have and has taken a genuine interest and dare I say it, I believe she has a fondness for me. We enjoy contact throughout the day, despite us living across the pond from one another. I find it very enjoyable to purchase items for her. It's even more enjoy...

This morning I got inspired to send Mistress Pauley a wake up tribute. here is the covering email to her. ______________________________________________________________________________________ Good morning, Mistress Pauley, ...

When looking at pictures online, I find many send mixed signals. Men are visual creatures. Our pictures are an important part of attracting attention from subs and ultimately their wallet. Here are a few that can confuse. Wearing Collars- Any collar, but especially the O-ring collar (one large ring for fastening). These are not part of a shirt's collar. Collars featuring such rings are often worn by submissives to indicate that they are in a D/s relationship. Seeing a woman wearing one as a...