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by on December 6, 2020
It's that time of year again! But it HAS been a hard year. So to all the kinksters out there:   Reach out to others check they are safe, comfortable and secure. Remember how lonely all of this can make you feel, let alone when you already feel lonely. ...
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by on December 4, 2020
It’s been a hard year in the world of kink! Too many individuals have got bored in their isolation and thought they would play around in ‘our’ world and too many have just made it harder and less safe for the real kinksters to enjoy their fetishes properly. Our preferred kink (which isn’t genuinely understood by most non-FinDom kinksters) has particularly been raped to death by instas from both sides (subs and Dommes). ...
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by on November 28, 2020
What gifts are you getting your Domme for the holidays? Finding the perfect gift for that special woman in your life may seem daunting. This holiday season is unlike any other, all the more reason to celebrate with thoughtful gifts.  The gift of an experience- You can fulfill a wish, encourage a passion, or something indulgent, with an experience gift. Future concert tickets, sporting events, cruise tickets, vouchers for an art class, gift certificates to her favorite beauty salon are a few...
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by on November 26, 2020
"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." -- Oprah Winfrey Today many of us sat down with family and friends to share a meal and recite what we are thankful for. This tumultuous year has forced many to reevaluate what matters. We have been given an opportunity to open our eyes to what is important.  ...
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by on November 26, 2020
In the old days, powerful empires would conquer smaller states. The conquered states would be allowed to live in peace but they were required to pay tribute to the conquering empire. Nom we have findom and one of the first things I learned many years ago is that the cash payments to dommes are called "tributes." When you see the sub as a conquered territory and the domme as an all powerful empire builder, this makes perfect sense. Of course, the domme continually works on the sub to extract m...
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by on November 25, 2020
Men are hunters by nature. Allow the quarry to come to you.   Have content they can stalk. Lead them down the trail with blogs. Lure them in with pictures. ...
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by on November 24, 2020
Have you ever wondered why I don't tell you all about my shitty day, or ask you to 'send to make it better'?   Well that is because I neither want nor need your pity. I am a Domme, all I need from you is your adoration, awe and obedience. I want gift upon gift and tribute upon tribute, due to my phenomenal presence and awesome aura, not my pitiful, begging, complaining, whiney existence. ...
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by on November 22, 2020
It's hard work being a Dom or Goddess. Especially when there are disobedient men!  We often forget the importance of sleep when it comes to our beauty. I myself sleep 12 hours or more a day....which is not reccomended. :D ...
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by on November 20, 2020
  Reimbursements don't they leave you with a great feeling?   ...
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by on November 19, 2020
Amazon has put a damper on our holiday plans. This is unacceptable. We are smarter than they are. There are a few things that we can do.  Time to make a burner email address. Use older emails like Hotmail and Yahoo. Instead of being MistressXYZ, try being MrsXYZ. Just use a plain name like Jane Smith, it works. You could make a new Amazon account with purchases going to a P.O. Box. Why give them any more money? There are other retailers with wish lists and gift cards. I am sure they will en...
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by on November 18, 2020
Remember my Gods and Clods: It's okay to say NO. We are not always for everyone and not everyone is for us. We will meet dommes we like, we will meet dommes we don't and vice versa.  The dynamic will not work if we don't fully enjoy and immerse ourself into that relationship, whatever it may be. ...
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by on November 17, 2020
Back in March when the the joke was about people who had stopped drinking Corona beer as they thought it had to do with the coronavirus, the stock market dropped and I had to withdraw from my usual level of sacrifice to Ms. Pauley Belle. We settled on a reduced level of spending that was to end with the end of 2020. Now, as far as credit card statements go, the December due statement is closed out. As of today, the next statement closes in December and is not due until January 2021, so that w...
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