For many of us Christmas time is an expensive period of the year where we are desperate to meet the expectations set down by our Dommes, attempting to gratify family members and friends through sourcing appropriate gifts and of course also trying to impress the Dominant Women in our life by stretching our finances that bit further in worship of Her. Then January comes along and everyone can easily feel a bit down, perhaps especially us subs as it’s a long month, we’ve overspent or worse not been...

Hey everyone, I'll keep it short and sweet (and maybe a little soppy). I hope everyone has had a great Christmas with loved ones etc.  Christmas is quite a difficult time for me, lots of time on my own with my own thoughts which can become a downer pretty quickly. For those of you who know me will agree with, despite spending years on this site daily back in the day I only drop in and out occassionally these days. But one thing I can say with absolutel certainty is that in the negative tim...