Evolution of Wife to FinDomme: part 1

It is the Cuckold who is in control.


Always, Cuckold stacks the deck. Don’t be fooled by his whimpering and simpering. Look beyond what he calls his submission and you will find a cold and seriously devious control freak. Yes, you think he has given you your freedom by allowing you to hold the key to his caged cock, but think again. Does he hold the purse strings while you merely hold a key? Just when you are about to go out and find a real job, some independence, does he give you money, buy you gifts?


Try to remember how you felt when you first discovered his true nature. Wasn’t it disgust, fear and nausea that washed over you when you it hit you that Cuckold wants to lick and suck another man’s cum from your freshly fucked vagina? Face it: You wondered what kind of sick pervert you had mixed yourself up with this time, didn’t you?


There is little doubt: Cuckold is a Master of Control in his professional world. That should have been your first clue: you may never win this power play. Perhaps he is a champion level chess player? How about the obsessive compulsive behavior around the house, his immaculate dress and attention to detail and cleanliness? Oh, He’s got your number now. He knows you are a real sweet gal, a people pleaser, the kind of girl who wants nothing more than to please her man.


But how wrong you are! You have been set up and played by the elegant musician, the artiste who takes Manipulation to a whole new level, a Master's Degree in the Fine Art of Passive Aggression.


Generous to a fault, he denies you nothing you desire, only your sexual needs, crying out that he is incapable of meeting them, while gently steering you to bigger and blacker things. He takes enormous pride as the provider of all other securities, financial, loving kindness and 'respect' in great doses. But immediately dons the uncomprehending blank stare mask when you express a sexual need. Beware, its a carefully arranged set up!


For Cuckold is a sexual vampire who drinks not from the power you imagine you have over him, but from his true prey, the Alpha male who’s cock YOU were fooled into bringing home for him to suck and worship.


Don’t bother trying to offer up alternatives or enticing him with your vanilla girl fantasies. He will only hear what fits into The Cuckold Hotwife Lifestyle. If you plan on wearing sexy lingerie, make sure it is soaked with another man's cum and that the panties are ultra slutty and large enough for him to slip into!


He claims to crave humiliation and the shame of having his wife taken by a bull right in front of him, or the ‘punishment’ of being left at home while she goes out with her lover. But let’s not forget on who’s terms these ‘humiliations’ occur. And who are these people reduced to sexual puppets? It is the Cuckold’s playthings that are humiliated and used as less than whole and worthy human beings: the Hotwife and the Bull.


But is Cuckold being shamed? Is he truly suffering when these scenarios are created by him? Does it even matter who the actors are or what they think and feel? Not to Cuckold! The game is always played on his terms.


And as he must be married, so must he play the role of nice guy, the generous benevolent good husband who is faithful servant to his wanton slut of a wife.


It won’t matter if his wife expresses that this game makes her feel bad, or that it hurts her to see her beloved belittled. Out comes the blank look, the empty stare response, limp cock, the unconscious flinching when she reaches out for normal sexual contact. Cuckold will intentionally deprive her of a normal sex life, keeping her lonely and sexually frustrated. Oh, Cuckold knows it won’t be long before she desensitizes herself to the idea… How bad can it be? I get the best of both worlds..blah blah blah.


But how does Cuckold know what the wife needs when he never asks and won’t listen! This is his game, his rules, and honey, you had already lost before you ever said, “I do”.