I am not the ONE to fuck with!

Most of my posts are very laid back, kind in speech, and pretty down to Earth I think. Sadly that seems to give boys the wrong idea about me. I am not going to bother with all the capitalization for the superior standing today. If you can't figure out who is the superior then I don't want to deal with you anyways. It seems to give them the impression that they can get away with attempting to play you, not putting any effort into anything they do, and worse yet flat out trying to bargain with you.

Now let me put something to rights. Just because I can be kind and friendly doesn't mean I will not shove my size 9 shoe or boot straight up your ass until it comes out through your throat if you forget that you are addressing and interacting with a Mistress of long standing who knows what she can expect.

You should be polite to women period, but I understand that some are ok with you just "feeling them out" and fall over them-selves for the attention from you. Not me! If you come to me you have two options.

#1 You can either see if you and I match and have potential for a long term D/s relationship together.
#2 You can come see me for a professional online or real time fetish and kink session in which case you pay me the fee I place upon my time and you don't get to bargain with me.

In either case you do not try to bargain, swindle, lie or make promises you are not willing or able to hold. You do not attempt to waste my time because honey the only one who gets to do that is me. I will fling you out of my window so fast you will hear your teeth rattling in your ass. Do I make myself clear?

You do not address me as dear, send me unsolicited dick and ass pics, talk over me like you have no sense and you most certainly don't expect me to fall over you for a $25.00 gift card. What the bloody fuck are you thinking? If I want a tip I'll become a Waitress. If it's purely a tribute that is fine, but a tribute comes with no expectations on your part and no strings attached.
I get paid more than that for phonefetish calls! It's not impressive especially when it's not a tribute but comes attached with a long list of demands. Buy a clue this is not submission and it's not even polite.

If you ask to serve me then you expect to be made use of. You expect to jump through my hoops not the other way around. Yes I will respect your hard limits, that goes without saying, but you are here to serve and amuse me. Not the other way around.

SACRIFICE for me and find out what that means to me first of all. I am NOT one of the Ladies who takes on boys who are constantly near broke because in my world that puts you in jeopardy if I allow that. I refuse you to keep you safe. So no a tube of lipstick at $6.00 is NOT a sacrifice in my world. If that is a sacrifice to you, you need a better paying job.

Don't come at me acting childish and butt hurt when I tell you to do something. Guess what as a Mistress it is not only my right but my responsibility to command you. If you want to be in charge become a Dom and leave Femdom behind. I rule my roost not you. You are the peasant before the throne working hard to please and amuse me. Get the concept straight because I will crush you like a bug if you don't.

Are you starting to get the picture here? Don't let my "bear hugs" for the Ladies fool you guys. Don't let my teasing some of the boys fool you. When I stop being silly because I feel like laughing and just having fun in a casual way, the iron fist snaps into place and it's my way or the highway.

If you build a relationship with me then that is something very different then a casual interaction. I'll get to know you, use your weaknesses and strength to guide you along, but no matter how much I care about you and I will in due time. It's me first and you second period. That is the nature of Femdom. Not the other way around.

So one more time. I am not the ONE to fuck with. I don't like being a cunt, I find it obnoxious, but that doesn't mean you can't flip that particular switch and get to know a side of me you wish you never encountered. Believe me when I tell you, I can castrate you without ever lifting a finger in a heart beat. You have been warned.

Goddess Bella Donna