Exit Etiquette....late night, early morning Goddess ramblings.

So the other day one of the gorgeous Goddesses chuckled, about my honesty. True story folks, I have the inability to front. If Im not doing well, I don't hide it well, if I like you, I tell you, and I will tell you why. Its who I am, and what I do. So i joked about good thing I have a good job, so I don't need tribs. OMG didI just say that
out loud? thats right, I'm not rolling in tribs, and bathing in champagne. I spend a good amount of time getting to know my boys (which is still quick by most peoples standards). After initial tributes are out of the way I like to spend some time getting to know new to me boys. Generally chatting with sessions sprinkled in, charming and chatting my way into your wallet, heart, and eventually soul.
But its by being myself, honest to a fault, charming, & funny, it makes you feel as if you've known me your whole life. soon the secrets begin to fall from your lips, and the bonds grow tighter, and something beautiful starts. After that initial connection it sometimes fizzles, something becomes apparently incompatible , someone else strikes your fancy, the reasons are endless. Regardless of the reason honesty is important. let me say that again HONESTY IS IMPORTANT!!!! so boys listen up.
If you are a fetishist, and only subby when you're horny, its important to let potential Dommes know this. you can pay for your session, keep the care to a minimum, prevent wasted time by both parties. If you're unowned its as simple as respectfully letting that Domme know you will be moving on, it shows character and integrity to be honest. It may not be fun, you may take some flak but it will feel better in the long run. If you're owned, same procedure, plus whatever the agreed upon buyout is.
if your'e struggling with something reach out to your Domme first, friends next. Ghosting/hiding is immature, and cowardly. Ive noticed a tendency to hide, and its annoying as all heck. Don't leave someone hanging, be honest and say good bye properly. okay late night rant over as the sun is peeking up..