Sadly Not a Fit

Had a lovely sub approach me several months ago. This submissive man was looking for TPE. He was very pleasant. His manners were impeccable, a well-behaved gentleman. The conversation flowed and was enjoyable Just the type I would happily add to my stable. He did not make the cut, unfortunately. The reason was simple, he lives in another time zone, on the other side of the Earth, which makes it near impossible to do TPE.

TPE- Total Power Exchange is a 24 hour a day, 7 days a week relationship. The Dominate person controls the submission at all times. The Domme chooses everything in this lifestyle. When normal life is done at opposite times, it is not easily achieved. During the time of day the sub was not asleep or working, I was asleep. This left no time for the relationship to develop. 

I let the sub know I would have enjoyed adding him to my "family", but I knew it was unfair to start a relationship that would leave us both frustrated. I wished him well in his search. I do hope he finds the Domme of his dreams.

Not every sub is the correct fit. Velcro relationships are not worth the effort. Be honest in your intentions and desires. The ones, that are looking for this bond, bring so much joy. Hope all find those special connections out there. Good luck on your journey.