Manners & First Impressions

Manners for the menials

When writing to a Domme it is typically expected that even an inferior being should exert its intelligence by using manners. For example there are simple things that you can do within your typing to show you are serious about servitude. These consist of properly addressing the Domme you approach. For the first message usually a screen name will work. Do follow this by asking what She prefers to be called. Then you may humbly introduce yourself. Refrain from saying things like, “I need” or, “I want” in an initial message. First impressions are EVERYTHING! That being said selfless messages striking a conversation based on common interests or just a light introduction can go a very long way, in the right context. We (Superiors) tend to seek out to see if the effort was put forth in your writing. Even the shortest message needs to be articulately written and inspected. Signs of laziness will often be over looked by a Domme like Myself. I would also suggest not asking too many questions initially as this can be a bad thing for a first interaction. Limit yourself to one question. Make it an intriguing one if you can fathom one but something that would relate to the Domme and Her interests. Always close politely with no expectations. I often times see people sign as slave or such, but I would ask anyone contacting Me not to use that term for themselves. Why? That is a title, and a title is given. So until it is given to that person just sign something humbly with your screen name. That is a proper first impression.

It is NOT a crime to use please and thank you- for anyone!

Also, these are usually followed up by in-depth looks at your profile lowly ones. I suggest that you do some articulate specific updates there as well. Explaining what excites you about Findom, the type of work you do, interests, and such. Make a real profile and take time in seasoning it right, like Us Ladies do. That would be pleasant to see.

Anyhow just a few tips, enjoy!