Don't you want to feel happy? Choose wisely and experience that eternal bliss!

Remember my Gods and Clods: It's okay to say NO. We are not always for everyone and not everyone is for us.

We will meet dommes we like, we will meet dommes we don't and vice versa. 

The dynamic will not work if we don't fully enjoy and immerse ourself into that relationship, whatever it may be.

If every sub liked the same thing, there would only be a handful of dommes, however, we are all vastly different so therefore different needs get met with different kinks, different characters and different friendships.

Never feel afraid to say to yourself this isnt working, but if you are a sub always make sure it is communicated to your Domme, dont use the old adage i didnt want to hurt her feelings! :neutral_face: You are only lying to yourself.

Most of all dont be afraid of trying, we know that alot of you struggle with your feelings and/or are shy. This is okay, you wont know until you try and then it could be the best thing you ever did!

Contributing/gifting/tributing/devoting to a Domme is such a natural behaviour it shouldnt be forced, if it is you are going to have to sit down, ask yourself why and learn how to move forward with that. 

Lets all be kind enough to ourselves, with the year the way it has been, to say I am looking to approach this the right way and pay close attention to my relationships, so that I can be sure that myself (Domme or sub) and others I connect with feel safe, comfortable and happy with the arrangements.

Keep safe and have fun always!