Being a Domme saved my life

I know the title probably sounds action packed, it isn't anything like that though.

Got married at 19, created the life I thought I always wanted. I was being controlled and manipulated. I wasn't allowed to have friends, go to the store alone, go to bars, wear "provocative" clothing, spend money on myself or things that would make me happy. I began losing weight and he got angry with me because other men at the gym must have been looking at me. 
I found out at 23, he had been cheating since we started dating. Several women, several times. My "best friend" helped him. She would hangout with me when she set him up on dates with her friends. He would call me names. He beat my ass several times. I decided to leave the marriage.

I thought my life was over. I was dead broke. I was surviving off expired food from food pantries, because he had cleared our joint bank accounts prior to them closing. 
I had always thought I was a submissive because it felt "right" to follow directions. Slowly, I asserted my dominance. It was a whole new animal that had came out of me. Being in control of situations and men who I CHOSE to be in my life, CHOSE how they talk to me. It was a rush. My first tribute made my heart pound faster than a short jog. 
I'm going to be 26 shortly and I am now living comfortable. Dominating men and constantly growing my confidence. Findom funded a new bedroom set, two Sphynx cats I always wanted, dates with the man of my dreams, my savings is flourishing. 
I love being a Domme. My experience under an abuser and my time as a submissive is what makes me such a powerful, strong, and wise Domme. It has taught me how a sub SHOULD be treated. The few who have had the luxury to be collared by me have gained confidence, grown their businesses or gotten promoted within their jobs, and have felt they found their purpose in life by serving under me. 
 

I love this life I built. I love Findom. I love the (good) Dommes in this community. I love my subs. I love myself. I love my life now.