Serious talk about drama.

Most of us have been on Twitter and in kik groups where drama breaks out. One minute subs are talking and enjoying themselves. The next minute one Domme steps on anothers toes...delibrate or not a cat fight starts. Subs vanish.

Ever actually taken the time to figure out why?

I did. I took the time to survey 250 finsubs. I actually stopped and took time to spend with them. 

99% of the ones I questioned had one common answer to why they turned to kink in general. See most of them have some type of drama in their life. Bitch for a girlfriend, Boss is an ass, Career issues...Drama on way or another.

They turn to kink for an escape from that drama. So when drama starts in their kink bubble, they walk away and find another peaceful place to practice kink.

In other words, these finsubs seek a safe place to enjoy findom, enjoy pushing the edge of what is affordable and what might break them. They seek fantasy!