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MistressX
by on January 25, 2019
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Blog inspired by a conversation with my sissy. I've owned him since 2014 
I think quite often slaves will question their value to Dommes. I'd imagine this would be more true to those who are unowned but also for those who are owned and wanting to impress their potential new owner.

Why do you enjoy spending time with me? I barely like spending time with me?

This question firstly saddened me then got me thinking.
When I see Dommes online calling submissives losers and unworthy this just reinforces the idea that subs are worthless and that (and owned sub) would be someone they wouldn't want to spend time with? After all if you think all slaves are losers and pathetic why WOULD you want to talk to them, why would you want to engage with them? It is a catch22. You want slaves to own but when you do you say they are losers and worthless and what superior woman would want to spend time engaging with those beneath them?
This brings us back to the idea that not all slaves are losers or pathetic etc which I see many Dommes agree with.
Sure some submissives get off of being called this and being ignored.
BUT when I own a sub I like to have daily contact even if it is just a check-in at the end of the day.

In regards to my sissy and our conversation I replied
I'm a Domme and you're a sissy, you've always done what you are told and we have fun in real time. You're polite and we talk non fetish too. Its not forced conversation and we get long. Why wouldn't I like spending time with you?    

I also commented
If I was busy I'd just tell you I'm busy and can't chat that day. If I don't hear from you I make sure to send you a message saying "just checking in" just so you know I've not run off this goes both ways. Its annoying when guys just ghost but Dommes can do that too. I know we are both busy people and have stuff going on but a message a day should be the minimum contact we have.


You’re far too good for what I deserve you know

Shut up dickhead

That’s more like it ;) 

I have started writing more blogs recently and will continue to do so as thoughts pop into my mind. I use this as a way to show potential slaves my through process and domination style as well as starting conversation with fellow dominants.

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the silent member
So do i Mistress. And what i especially like about You is You have a healthy enough sense of humour to appreciate even a slave availing itself of Your urine if its done in a respectful and witty manner. Incidentally i do sufficiently know my place not to use the crude terminology when addressing a G... View more
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MistressX
Hahah yes extracting the urine one of the phrases I used to say. I genuinely love doing what I do with a smile on my face otherwise whats the point in doing it?
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the silent member
Exactly Mistress X. i have always thought if you can't laugh you should just fornicate to a different location.
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easily led
Thank you for this blog! I certainly recognize the thoughts here. I've been with Miss Dakota for almost 4 months now and i am amazed that out of all the people She could spend time with, She chooses to spend it with me. Not that i think i am worthless or anything but feel that She is beyond amazi... View more
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