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MissDakota
by on December 11, 2018
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Frequently Asked Questions

                  As a Domme I feel like it is important to help out other Dommes that are truly serious and trying to learn. Which in my opinion is an extremely valuable tool to have as a Domme trying to come into her own. Knowledge truly is power and Findom is a power exchange. In this blog post I want to give the more established Dommes an opportunity to share some of thier knowledge. I am going to write out some of the frequently asked questinos that I get in hopes that my fellow Dommes will comment and share thier thoughts and advice. Then in my next blog post I am going to share my answers to these questions. So in the spirit of Dommes empowering one another, here are the questions that I get asked the most by new Dommes..... 

1. How do I behave? Am I supposed to be cold and mean or can I be nice? 

2. How do I bring up tributes with a new sub?

3. Do you think that it is ok to negotiate with subs?

4. How do I reach out to a sub? Is it ok for me to reach out to subs? 

5. How do I deal with a sub that is being demanding and rude?

6. What if a sub is threatening to blackmail me? How do I handle it?

7. Do real subs exist? Why can't I find a good solid sub?

8. What do I do if my sub is talking to other Dommes behind my back? 

9. What are the best cash apps to use for Tributes?

10. What is your best advice for new Dommes?

                  So some of these questions have very obvious answers of course. But try to remember when you were first starting out. Some things were very confusing in this wonderful Findom world. I would love to see some opinions, answers, advice.... etc. in the comments below. With my next blog entries I will be answering one or two of these questions in each. I hope you all find use in this serious of posts and if nothing else find a reason to spread some knowledge. 

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MissDakota
This is awesome! Thank you ladies for sharing all of this! I think it’s amazing to see you beautiful Dommes coming together like this. Thank you for taking the time to reply and share your advice.
Like December 11, 2018
Krisha_Spanx
1. Ask yourself why you are in this world in the first place. Is it for money? Do you have a love for the kink? If it's not the latter, that's alright, though you should do your fair share of research, and be prepared to become cunning, baffling, and powerful, no matter weather you are "mean" or "ni... View more
Like December 13, 2018
GoddessAmadis
10. Never ever ever stop learning, you can always be better than yesterday and understand kinks you may not be interested in at first. Don’t be afraid to explore. This needs daily constant effort, you must become a good domme not only for you, but for the subs that will serve you
Like December 13, 2018
MissDakota
Love all the comments!
Like December 29, 2018