Be the change you want to see

Lately I've been seeing too much shit. Too many entitled 'subs'. Too many unprepared 'dommes'. To many people who's not into the fetish trying to do something that has nothing to do with financial domination and calling it findom.

I heard an asshole say that the reason why subs try to offer less than is because the 'market' is oversaturated. And that last word may be true but the rest is bullshit. This is NOT a market and cheap self-serving fetishists are NOT finsubs.

this is a very specific fetish and the people who practice it deserves respect. If I set my prices is because I won't work for less. It's rude and unacceptable to offer to pay less for something that has a price. The reason why men think they can offer me les, be rude or feel they can say my prices are 'too expensive' is because someone believed them before. Someone gave them a discount or accepted their alms and their shitty attitude so now they think that's normal.

but here's the thing. That's not going to change. Things will only get worse. The only thing that can change the scene is our behavior. I must confess that when I saw this happening all the time I started to think it was true. I thought maybe it was true that I ask for too much. So I lowered my standards, both in financial and servitude. I accepted smaller tributes and bad behavior, but I soon realized that didn't make me happy. I realized that wouldn't fix anything in the long run. I was not contributing to findom.

So I said fuck that and did what made me happy. I'm bitchier than ever. And yeah that's what makes me happy. When I set the rules men must obey. Because that's their duty and their rol. I get paid for what I want when I want and subs have nothing to say about it. I'm nice when I want to be nice if I want to be nice (which doesn't happen often). And this is empowering me so much. I had lost that feeling. I tough I couldn't change anything. Now instead of thinking, I'm doing something. I'm being myself and I'm writing this post to encourage you to take only what you deserve. To not put a man's needs before your desires, to not accept anything that doesn't make YOU get off and to raise your fucking prices girl! this is not a fetish for broke men!

Make them suffer. They love it.

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Goddess Amadis