Tactics- methods & means

Just a afternoon rant and rave. The mind is a terrible thing to waste and I speak for me. We are all unique in how we handle ours. What is good for you may not be good for me. Subs come and go, just as Dommes, heck yes we do retire and choose different paths - it happens. Several Dommes ( new ones ) have contacted me concerning the how to aproach-- well My response is : be yourself.

In my life experiences, the aproach of me just being me has worked best. I am stern, comical, bold, beautiful and intelligent and I fear no- one but God Himself. Its my opinion subs can be timid and shy but if given the chance they can be amazing and filled with so much to offer. Money is a given but they are human with lots to share, if again given the Opportunity. I have onesub who does pay me, spoil me and pamper me but it would be him to hand to me the Best damn chocolate chip recipe I have ever made. I use this as example not getting deeper into the network and resources sub hand to a Domme they feel confidant they can trust.

Another who is terrified of his identity from time to time ( pays me ) and selects Dommes he wants to gift and yes sends me thefunds to transfer. Lets face it, every Domme and or sub is not honest. As with life- there can be scamps everywhere- do I know this yes for I am not ashamed to say I slept with one for years-- its life.

The greatest exchange of power is the Bond of trust , as I have come to find in my tenure of time here, if a slave trust you -- he will give you the cash out his wallet and place his shirt on the ground for you to not get your pretty shoes tarnished- this is the way of the true Sub. You cannot force the fit & when you aim to do so--- it fails.

My thing is-- know the sub--know the Domme and heads wont clash. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder - just as with the unpoken language. Ever notice how to people can hit it off and they make speak two different languages but understand each other. Cash is UNIVERSAL ----- if a Sub wants to tribute you -- he will. There is no protection racket going on up in here- if there is - heck put meon LOL - Just kidding.

With that-- I have voiced and concerning Subs who aim to TOP from the Bottom -- its a TURN- Off . Personally, I enjoy the sub & a gent - not a slob posing on a FINDOM site-- thinking his cash an buy me OFF. NO- can do and if this is in MINd- to the wannabe Sub-- get to stepping and yes you may try this with one thirsty because in the end - DOMMES true to the series --- DO know the difference & you will be ignored ...


Random thoughts and what a Day!!!