True Submission or Selfish Baiting?

"Would you please expose me, Goddess?"

"I'll suck cock for you."

"I want to be your slave that you can punish and peg whenever you want."

It seems that the brunt of the messages I receive nowadays fall under this aggravating little umbrella, men who instantly talk about the things I can do to them or what they want to be in a relationship. I fully understand that it is, indeed, a relationship, and there is some give and take on both sides (mostly take on Ours). However, this is one thing and one thing only: selfish.

These men have no idea what true submission is, nor how to interact with a Dominant figure. Nothing is more unattractive and telling or a poor excuse for a sub than immediately going into what I can do to/for them. This isn't submission. This is topping from the bottom. It's arrogant, selfish, and is never tolerated. Any punishment, any treats, any ANYTHING that I give is at My discretion and My decision only, not to be guided by the likes of those that serve Me. A Domme doesn't need a recommendation on how to punish you, or what kind of kink to enact on you (if it falls within your kinks). You are to close your mouth, take what you get and above all, be thankful for anything a Domme gives you.

This is the kind of behavior that sets the true subs apart from fetishists. Unless I ask you what your kinks are, you are to stay silent about them. "Yes, Mistress," "Sent, Mistress," and all statements parallel with these are the only things We want to hear out of your mouth. Never forget that We run the show. We run the course. We run YOU. The second you step out of line and "beg" for us not to give you a very specific punishment, your selfishness becomes transparent. The same policy goes with brats. Disobeying us just for us to punish you and further engage your pain kinks is tacky and unacceptable. Both of these will put you in mind for termination when serving ANY Domme. Not just Me. But any.

So learn some respect. Get to know your Domme and what she likes. Tell us about yourself without taking the selfish route. SEND A TRIBUTE. And above all, know your place.