Some thoughts from a newbie

I have to say it's a bit confusing coming in as a newbie, I've worked both sides of bdsm ONLINE, online relationships are very real. I've read a bunch about findom, but don't know much. I know there is great debate over the cam girl thing. I've done/do that as well. What's confusing to me is when I see all these cam sessions offered for a price, I wonder how it's different when it's a gorgeous round ass in lingerie that is offered up? I'm not being snarky, I'm curious.
I'm working with an amazing fin slave who came to me before I was even verified, I did make him wait to tribute lol. He's amazing and I feel lucky to have him under me. But I know a great responsibility comes with him. Maintaining his mental, physical , and financial health. I don't want to ruin him, while allowing him to serve me. So I am like a sponge. All that to say, as a newbie it's hard to wade through the bullshit to find the gems of info. But I know there are some amazing women here with a wealth of knowledge beyond "fuck you! pay me"
If you see me doing something dumb or there is a better way, feel free to shoot me a message and tell me. I'm open and learning every day. (I think I'm going to blog this as well). Great post thank you.