Introducing myself to you.

To the boys I am Goddess Bella Donna, Miz Bella Donna, or simply Ma'am, and to my fellow Ladies I am simply Bella. I am friendly, easy going, down to Earth, and at times pretty darn goofy because I love to laugh and be surrounded by happy people. I would say that is my default nature, but when it comes to actual scene time and conditioning my subs I am stern, no-nonsense, and MY will shall be done. With other words there is a time for being silly and playful, and a time to get serious to me.

I been in BDSM and Fetishes for a very long time now. Since 1992 to be exact and my first real time taste in financial domination was before that even without me ever even knowing what it was I was doing. My start was in real time period, and I am still doing real time on a Professional level only now as My traveling permits and I am in the mood for.

Full-time RVing as in living and traveling in my RV throughout the USA is something you will hear me talk a lot of in chat. It's a dream I am living currently and will for several more years to come. I enjoy small places, meeting quirky people that you'll never hear about in the News and listening to their stories, visiting Historical sights and living my life to the fullest I can.

For many years I was pretty invested in the Financial Domination Communities at large, wrote the first ever book on Financial Domination (Financial Domination without the Smoke and Mirrors) and even took the time to publish several Magazines about Financial Domination (The Financial Domination Magazine). These days I feel I have paid my dues and am here to be amused, to find a few good and loyal submissive cash pets who are intelligent and gentlemanly (that can be sissies too) and enjoy serving a more mature Lady like myself.

Financial Domination and Fetish is only one of dozens of kinks and fetishes I enjoy and when I play with someone I include many of those other fetishes or kinks into it as well.

I have been long enough around to know that most of the boys that I encounter are not submissive but fetishists who only do when their arousal and dicks are engaged. I have no problem with that as long as they remember to be respectful and mind their manners. Fly bys and casuals can be fun, but I prefer like most women to actually build a FD/s and D/s relationship with a couple of special pets which goes a lot deeper then just surface.

I am living Goddess, an Educator, an Artisan of Kink and Fetish, and more. OH and I hate writing profiles and introduction blogs by the way because they all always look like an Advertisement. Words can't capture the nature of a human being, their character becomes apparent in interaction.

Let's see what else. I love to do Needlework, write, draw, READ, travel (obviously), cook, hold intelligent conversations with other people, learn something new every day, sing in the shower (badly), and so much more.

My two favorite tag lines about me are:
I am perfectly imperfect (I find perfection overrated and rather boring to be honest.)
Fat, mature and fabulous (Which seems to bother some since people tend to find the word "fat" as derogative. In my world however it is just another word and geez at a size 22 to 26 I am not a tiny person now am I?)

Outside of all of this, I am just simply Me. I wouldn't even know how to be someone else if you paid me to, nor would I want to be. I love being this quirky older woman who is opinionated as all get out, stubborn, forceful when I want to be and naturally dominant.

If you want to know anything else about me ask. I think that has been going on long enough here now. I hang out in the chatroom daily for a bit so you can get the chance to meet me there.

Looking forward to meeting you there and for you boys who are interested in serving someone like Me, I don't chase after boys. If you want my attention you have to approach Me. Yup I am snobby that way.

Goddess Bella Donna