Sunday morning Domme chronicles "what do you do with broke boys"

We spend this time weaving our web, attracting our prey, training them, molding them exactly to our liking. Milking them...sometimes furiously in the beginning while your in that "new chemistry cloud" when both parties wonder if tis could be THE ONE? Time is invested, information is shared, a comfortableness grows as boundaries are pushed. The addiction is nurtured and encouraged. With many of us a genuine relationship is formed with that D/s. One that would leave a pretty deep hole if removed from U/us. (i realize not all of us get this close, Im speaking from my experience only) Even community boys that I play with regularly I have a relationship/level of comfort with.
So then, what happens when reality comes knocking, and its name is A.Express, Discover, Amazon, Bills, Bank etc? Reality is, these boys have vanilla lives and some have families (fact). So then do I/We cut them loose, or ride out the storm staying in contact with them, offering occasional "mini tasks?interactions, and just supporting the ones who have so selflessly given to us? Im sure those that know me already know my answer, but I'm going to share it anyways. I DO NOT cut them loose. Big shocker..lol
I do reduce contact, and they are not a priority, but they are also not tossed back right away. I do tend to ride out the storm rather than cut and run. Teach budgeting, help keep them positive and moving forward to better times, even with my community boys. Also the good boys expect nothing when they are broke, as they should. But it always surprises me at their shock when I say they may still message and keep in touch. I do enjoy findom, love it, but you have to nurture and water that lil money tree during the droughts, to get it to bear delicious fruit when the rains do come.
Could they be lying to me? Sure, but that info usually travels fast, and they will have to deal with their own Karma. They are cut off and blocked if caught lying. I need to be right with myself inside. I wouldn't feel right creating a need/addiction and then cutting someone off without a plan in place to get back on track. Even if there needs to be a severance to break the addiction, find support in some form of that person. Im interested in Domes, and subs opinions on this. Im more of a lifestyle Domme, than straight Findom. Is that possible without realtime? Just sitting thinking in a quiet house.
Genuinely curious about others opinions on this.