Respect find out what it means to me

It doesn't matter where you go, or what you do, chances are you have been disrespected in the past. Trolls live under bridges all over the place and in fetish they are plentiful. In findom a domme becomes accustomed to being treated as a unique and respected individual by her submissives. She is put on a pedestal and worshiped. She demands respect and rules over her subs with a firm hand. So what happens when a submissive disrespects her? Well every domme is different. Some will block them, some will engage them in heated argument and some will publicly shame them. First of all, understanding WHY a sub has been rude to you is key. Did you warrant this behaviour? I know, I know, your a domme you can speak to subs however you want right? Well no. If you are not that subs active domme then he is just a regular average Joe like another man and should be treated as such. If he approaches you asking to hear more about you and you jump down his throat swearing and carrying on then maybe that explains it? Now, if he approaches you being inappropriate, disregards your profile information (showing he has not bothered to find out about you), trying to engage you in sexual chat before tribute etc. Then you should stand your ground and tell him your not interested, otherwise just block him. If you did not warrant such behaviour, and you have been verbally attacked or insulted for no reason at all, the person who is trolling you is NOT a submissive. Submissives are polite and respectful in approaching a domme and will never deliberately try to cause drama. It's common attention seeking behaviour for a "sub" to be rude to you so that you will go kung fu on his ass and then he gets what he wants... Free abuse. Publicly shaming the offender is very common, however some of these parasites enjoy it, and you are just fuelling their fire.



My advice on this is:
1. Use that block button. It there for a reason ladies and the best thing to do is stop any further contact.
2. Don't retaliate. I've been guilty of this in the past. It's so easy to lose your cool but it's not worth it. Don't stoop to their level and give them free attention they want. Ignore. Block. Move on.
3. Report them. Many websites have a procedure for reporting troublesome members. Instead of publicly shaming them (Which looks really unprofessional) report them to the admin team. Chances are that others will have reported them too which will get them booted from the site.
4. Don't take it to heart. I've seen very confident dommes become disheartened or upset by nasty comments in the past. Brush it off and don't give them the satisfaction.
5. Learn from it. If you lose your cool or got embroiled in a drama and regretted it, learn from it. Use it as experience in knowing what not to do going forward.

Keep your class ladies and hold your heads up high.