Robyn_Wonderxx

So, I've been thinking a lot recently about some areas of contention between Dommes. Those little disagreements about what's "proper," or what makes someone a "real Domme," or which way we "should" portray ourselves. My intention with this blog isn't to stir up controversy, but rather, to have a discussion about some of these things.   I'm sure we've all seen it. "A real Domme wouldn't do X. A Domme worth her salt wouldn't wear Y. Dommes have to do Z." ...

Hey, Findoms! It's me again, back with another blog post about the intersection of gender and kink. What could go wrong, right?   It's a subject I love to think about, though. What does it mean to be "male" or "female?" What is masculine, and what is feminine? Where is the line drawn between "straight" and "queer?" Often, particularly in kink scenes, these questions come up even when we aren't actively thinking about them. ...

It's been a while since my last blog, so it's about that time again. I know this is a little bit of a different sort of blog entry for this site, but hear me out!   This is a topic that I don't really speak much about, but I figure now is the perfect time. It's May, which is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome awareness month - and, somewhat poetically, also my birthday month (May 31st). For those of you who don't know, EDS is a collection of genetic disorders that affect connective tissue. This leads ...

Hey there, Findoms! Been a while. Far too long, actually, and I've been antsy, all caught up in RL business without time to play. But I've been thinking about My relationship with men, and how findom/being a Domme in general has helped Me sort out My feelings in regards to the opposite sex.   I'm a bisexual woman. I don't make it a secret. If you object to that, we have nothing to say to each other, because I'm confident in My identity, and I know there are plenty of subs out there who und...

I've been thinking a lot recently about when my lust for money began. I may not have known about findom until a few years ago, but the concept is something I've always been interested in, whether I knew the term or not.   Like most fixations, it started when I was young. Playing video games, I'd always be the one to hoard money, even fictional wealth. Sure, it's fun to spend it, but it's also fun to watch that number go up, and up, and up, and know you have the power to buy whatever you wa...