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I know how tough it can feel with you are working and producing content and no one seems to notice your efforts. You keep seeing more and more high tributes from all this other people and your are thinking, "Well fuck where is mine." Jealousy hits even the best of us. So what do you do?
Comment or like that post from another successful person. Go for a walk and think about what you can do to make that happen for you. Use these three questions as a guideline.
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Let's face facts. All of us sucessful dominants have been been at some point where you are now.
Wether you are just starting out or need a little helping hand. I have a few links that might help you. Yes they are afflilate links so I make a small amount off for them but these are things I use regularly that have helped me so much along the way.
First off there is a telegram bot that helps me create ideas for new videos.
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I have writen before about the power of knowlege in this industry. I only included one book because at the time I didn't htat my list handy. That blog post is here.
This is also to educate as many in this industry with free information becuase I am sick of seeing Guru's who know nothing selling cheep lists. Hopefully this helps loads.
Femdom realted books list:
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Most of the time I refuse to spend a lot of money on photo shoots and events. However I learned a valubale lesson after my trip to the Femdom Ball in London lat year. I want to make it clear that this is a step to take later on in your online career and I will explain why when I go into detail.
Let me put this in the best perspective:
£100 high tea
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I've been in this world since around May 2000. Back then most of the time the only way that this worked was off-line. Nowadays, there are so many different ways to do this and I'm doing this from Europe. So some of my pay methods will be a different way than America.
PayPal is one of the most popular but there are quite a few downsides for a dominant. One the fees are extremely high and it's easy for a submissive to charge back with this. And it's also easy for a dominant to scam somebody...
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Findom, short for financial domination, is a unique aspect of BDSM that involves a power exchange centered around financial control. In this blog post, we will delve into the dynamics of safe findom, examining the principles of consent, trust, and responsible execution. We will explore how findom can be an empowering experience for both dominants and submissives while highlighting the significance of maintaining boundaries and ensuring the well-being of all participants. Join us on this journey ...
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When someone comes to me for long term service they are told I do not tolerate laziness. I spend time once they have paid to see what is affordable. We speak about limitis and expectations. And the process for long term service is long for a reason. I have a small group who send to me regularly and I train them hard in their service to me. Today I will explain a bit about why few make it that far.
This Decemeber an australian submissive gifted me a Lush advent calendar that I open each day un...
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I have not been as active here due to building my Onlyfans content and working on my mental health. See being a Dominant also means we have to take a step back and looking at what is best for us.
I took the past 19 days to take a step back. Here is what I found out.
1- Not all of my submissives will wait for me. Granted I never once expected this. Anyone who is in this business for more than one month knows that the majority we attract are kinkers. They don't look for long-term but a quick...
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Ladies this one is mainly pointed to you. But it can also be of use to the submissive who have been through the abuse that this industry can dish out.
Last year has been rough on all of us. Most have spent 6 months of the year in lockdown. Forced to distance from family and friends. Ad the abusive messages the adult industry can dish out. For the ladies, I know you have had messages from people telling you to get a job or fat or age shaming which I have been through. I am lucky enough to...
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Keep in mind that not all of us have the same form of etiquette when it comes to approaching us. So I will lay it out easiest for the ones looking to approach me.
Address me as Madame. I want this because unlike many I have been doing this for the past 20 years. I know what I am doing and I know what I want. Experience means that I expect more from submissives wishing to serve me.
Introduce yourself. Not just the basics such as your age and country you are located. This makes sure that ...
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For the last few days, I have had a lot of submissives approaching for debt games. I wanted to be clear that my games are not always as easy as you make think. I will deliberately add twists that are agreed ahead of time to add suspension and anticipation to my games. What I enjoy the most is a damn good laugh in this kinky world and a creative spirit.
Here are my rules:
First off introduce yourself. Take the time to tell me:
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