Lola Vicious

This is a rant more than anything. I have been in my feels the last week or so. Maybe it's because I'm tired of being sick and tired I dont know. I have been in the fetish world oh...probably about a good 10 or 11 years. Exploring, finding myself and figuring out what i want out of my life. I think just up until recently i kinda figured out where my headspace was and what I was trying to accomplish. I want to live my truth and I am no longer shamed by that. Yes, I am a Financial Dominatrix and t...

It's always been a dream of mine to be in a long term female led relationship. As a lifestyle Domme, I can't have a "normal" dating life. Regular vanilla dating isn't anything that interests me. I know the life I lead and I know what is compatible and not compatible with my life. A regular vanilla relationship wouldn't work for me because I can't see myself submitting to someone I'm dating. Financial Domination is the ultimate power exhange for me because think about it, most people spend their ...

Hey Everyone!! Lately I've been talking to some of my friends about what the expectation of a Domme is, I guess you could say. It was very interesting to see some of the things that were discussed. The one thing that I got from it by just observing the discussion is, why is there an expectation of what a Domme should and shouldn't do? One thing I also can't help to notice and I'm sure you all have to is, Domme's are all different and beautiful in their own way. Some may have one way of operat...

Hey Everyone!! I wanted to kinda just talk or post about this since it's been on my mind for awhile. So i've been into Femdom about 10 years and Findom about 8 years (on and off). I came back very recently full time and it's very different. I've been trying to stretch my little Findomme wings and have been severly kink shamed. It's crazy because I have always felt very welcome in the fet community but not lately. I am very grateful for this site because I feel very welcome among people who un...

Ok so Ive been thinking about this topic for awhile now and I want to see what everyone thinks? I see alot in the FinDom world Dommes having Alphas that are their boyfriends. I can see and totally understand that, but I wonder has any Domme thought of having a sub as a bf or husband? To be quite honest, I have always wanted to marry a sub. I would want to wake up and be served faithfully everyday from beginning to the end of my day. I'm hella into cuckolding too so of course I'd be able to do as...

Lately I've had this confusion of what serving me is and also what having a session with me. Generally what I do is get to know a little bit about my subs before I see why they are inquiring. I'll ask if they are trying to serve me or why are they here. I've had some subs be astonished when I tell them how much it is to be under my consideration for a slave. Serving me, is a daily priviledge which involves tasks and duties in which my subs have to fulfill. As you see here, key words, priviledge....

So0o0o0o I have noticed a few things since I have been back in the scene. Kinda wanted to talk about that. I have been dominating men since a young tender age of 18. I was introduced to financial domination a few years later. When I was introduced it was this beautiful underground world, with domineering and intimidating women. I started using this site, twitter, instagram and I think maybe another site. I dont really remember. It was a nice world where I could explore my kinks on a cyber level....