Ms Laura

"That Value is Discipline. I think that's really the message to your subs. You teach them discipline and give them what they need to succeed and thrive in many ways." -- subjack This is a message I received from one of My subs...a message I was glad to see. It shows that he understands the process and is growing from it. There is a difference between punishment and discipline. Many fail to understand this. Punishment -- the infliction or imposition of a penalty as retribution for an offens...

There have been some cases in the recent news which have prompted me to make this post and clarify a few things. Much of what is involved in the online world of D/s is fantasy. Fantasies usually develop in childhood for a variety of reasons. As we age, some of those fantasies become more involved, or grow into almost an obsession of sorts...and can lead to different predilections. For the most part, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Even having fantasy about taboo subjects are normal....

In doing some reading, I came across a lovely little challenge that I would like to offer up to you all. It is the Bathroom Control Challenge. Turning over control of ones most basic body function is an exercise in humility and discipline. Its a form of very intense micromanagement and a challenge for even the most seasoned submissive. My Bathroom Control Challenge not only places your bladder function in My hands for the day, but it also incorporates elements of mild pain/sensation play. You...

There is a difference between being in service to Me as an online sub/finsub and being in a RT Service Submission position. I have 2 RT Service positions open and those are for local prospects only..no live-in. Aside from these 2 positions, I have no space for RT service. To serve Me online and/or as a finsub, I have certain requirements. I require three things up front to be considered for service to Me. ...

As many know, Ms Laura does enjoy working with sissies. I find that men who have the desire to embrace their feminine side tend to be drawn to Me. These little girly boys are so eager to please and enthusiastic. With sissy training there are many things to understand. Many of them will become a bit overwhelmed and excited with their new image. The new clothes: panties, bras, stocking and heels can be intoxicating, as can how they look in make-up and wigs. "Do not allow vanity to creep into yo...

Some see this title and get a little chubby at the thought of a Domme, such as myself, taking control of their finances. The fantasy being giving up the ultimate control. As with most fetishes, however, the fantasy is much more then they can handle in reality. For a D/s relationship, Control and Power is the essence of Domination. Giving up your finances, especially for a male to do so, is the ultimate in TPE. I have owned several businesses, currently running a non-profit I founded. I ...

Summer is here! Summer is here, My pets, and Ms Laura has become quite busy. On top of My regular job, I also spend much of the summer out camping and working at various festivals. This means a great deal of sleeping in tents (yes, Ms Laura DOES know how to "rough it" in more ways then one lol), communing with nature, and a very busy schedule. My active subs are doing well, and I have even accepted ownership of a very obedient slave who is proving himself quite worthy. A former sub has c...

Every experience we have, whether good or bad, presents us with an opportunity to learn. Today (well, last night into today) I took the opportunity presented to learn a lesson. A hard one. As a Dominant, the care of My submissive is very important to Me, and I am a great believer that I should never lose control of Myself at any time. If I can not control Myself, how then can I care for My submissive? I made the mistake of engaging in a serious scene with a submissive, after being awoken...

D/s Online First, I will answer a question that many have asked....why do I do this? Very simply, because it fulfills a need that I have. My time as a RT Domme ended when My personal life responsibilities changed (children, relationships, etc), and continuing in an online capacity allowed Me to still do what I needed in My personal life and fulfill My own needs. Now that My situation is again one that allows Me to indulge in those things that fulfill Me in RT, I choose to continue with onlin...

Boys, you have been lied to your whole life. Contrary to popular belief, size DOES actually matter! You know it does, deep down you've always known this to be true. You know that the length and width of you matters and you ...

Foot Worship is a fetish that many in the mundane world are unaware of. Next to the brain (at least for Ms Laura) the feet rank right up there with nipples and clitoris for erogenous zones on the body. Why, you ask? Everybody loves a good foot rub. But did you know foot massage dates back to ancient Egypt and China? That’s right, over 5,000 years ago our ancestors were rubbing each other’s feet. Think about how much stress your feet go through each day. No body part is more abused than you...

While I greatly appreciate those of you who choose to tribute as your only form of service, I am now seeking submissives who will serve Me exclusively and in RL. I am going to choose a select few to take this on. With the end goal being that at the end of the year, I will have one (possibly two) who will serve Me full time in My day-to-day life. This is not an easy decision to make, for either party involved, and will require time and dedication. I am not an easy Mistress; I WILL challen...