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Ive seen a lot over the years and some things needs to be addressed. There are things you should do on the site but i see those that dont. There are things you shouldn't do on the site but i see it. Very important to notice. So what are they? Here they are.
1) do NOT post nudes on the site. Why? Because it isnt allowed and because of FOSTA/SESTA it isnt allowed. If you dont know what that means look up those two and you'll understand. Yeah the subs likes it but it isnt allowed.
2) get ver...
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I know I've written a blog about the chatroom. Well I'm writing another one. Many years ago it was a busy place. It's what got me started in being a better Findomme. Plus i was getting tributes all the time. Over the years, the chatroom dwindled into a small group of us. It was once popular and it isnt. We now have discord but thats for if the chat is down. Which is great and i see people chat there more often than the site's chatroom...
lets make the chatroom busy again. Subs, dont be shy in...
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I've been a lifestyle domme since 2009. I however, knew about the kink lifestyle before then but never knew about the findom stuff. I learned about it from a fellow Domme. Tthen started doing foot nights as a beginning of findomming. I no longer do foot nights due to drama from the host who said bad things about a few of us. I do have a mentor that teaches me how to do sessions outside of the longline world. She is an awesome person and is a kickass Domme. I learned a lot over the years but once...
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Each year i want something different. Or something that i already have. As we close out 2020 which was a horrible year, I reflect on how i want 2021 to go. 2021 is to be a year of gentle enterance. A year to fight what weve been fighting for all of this year. A year that us Dommes deserve the best out of the subs. If there are any subs who can do what their title is. Ive learned a lot about this year and hope that next year will be better.
1) I learned that my ADHD is bad. im all over the pla...
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I'll never forget the day i joined. It was after midnight on this day. the site was the old version. where the chatroom was on the main page. it was small and i couldnt figure out how to make it bigger. a fellow Domme helped me and boy was she patient with me lol. i figured out how to be in the room. Admin verified me. Ill remember that i didnt look that good. my hair was up, i was in my kitchen, etc. she had me holdup 6 fingers. It took me a few mins to figure that out lol. I figured it out and...
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reimbursement |ˌrēimˈbərsmənt| nounthe action of repaying a person who has spent or lost ma sum paid to cover money that has been spent or lost
this is a word that should be quite familiar to everyone. in the findom world its an opportunity. Subs you should be very familiar with this and take action. its a chance for you to make a Domme proud. and a chance to be redeemed as a good boy. this s an opportunity to prove you are a great sub, a sub that knows what his role is, etc. this can be a fe...
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Many years ago the chatroom was busy. as the years go by the chatroom became busy at certain times, etc. we need to bring the chatroom to a busy state again. its a room where we all get to chat about stuff. we find connections, we find kindness, etc. Subs, now dont be shy in coming in. we understand your nervous and all. but you get to know us. the best way to know a Domme. and dont be shy to say something. a talking sub is a good sub. not sayng that the quiet ones arent :). but talking is good....
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this topic was sparked in the chatroom while talking to a sub. i thank this sub for the convo and for me to be able to write about it. it got me thinking....well a sub should have respect as well. talking to them is a way to get to know them obviously but to see if you click with that sub. even if you dont, you learned a few things about who they are as a person. which is important of course. if you dont give them the respect they deserve then you'll never know if they are right for you. they ar...
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There are so many different payments out there. There are only a few that i do know about. I use the circle pay, google pay, cashapp, and amazon gcs. I find these are the best for me. Everyone will have their own that they like the best. There are a few that aren't the best to use and there has been blogs that were written about them. So here are my thoughts on the ones I've dealt with.
Google Pay: Google pay is easy to get. If you have a gmail account, you can then sign up for google pay. Th...
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There is so much about me thst many do not know. Vanilla or kink, it’s all about who makes me who I am.Each part of me makes me unique. So here are a few things you may not know about me.
1) i have two different color eyes. So dont be fooled when I look at you. My left is a hazel color and my right is a brown color. And I like that I have two different color eyes
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I remember when i first started on the site. i was greeting someone over on fetlife when her profile had this site on it. I decided to give it a try and see what the site was about. I signed up, was trying to navigate myself around the site which was confusing for someone who was new. the chatroom was at the top of the home page and couldnt figure out how to make it bigger. i had someone help me from the site. i felt bad as i couldnt seem to get to do it. i was verified that night. Admin was the...
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I experienced today a sub from kik. we had a brief session last night. this morning he told me he wanted a refund because i didnt provide the service you were looking for and have it a courtesy to him. i told him this is financial domination and there is no refund and that he should know that. his response was yapp good luck to you. I was apalled by his response considering how sweet it was last night.
Here is a thing about refunds. they arent there in financial domination. its a courtesy to ...
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