MistressMM1

I have a bone to pick. While I am one to listen to my subs wants and desires, I feel that sometimes subs think they are telling me what to do. In reality they are topping from the bottom. When I asked for their wants and desires there is a right way and a wrong way. The ideas should be in a non confrontational way of telling the Dominant. If you are truly a submissive then you need to be real with yourself and check to make sure you are not trying to top the Dominant. I always directly ask t...

So finding people with whom you mesh is quite an ordeal. Trying to make sure you are giving proper amounts of time to each person and trying to decide who is a timewaster vs. a true sub is proving to be pretty difficult. I do not want to have to do the pay before we talk thing but am looking that way. It is frustrating for both parties. I try to be equal in my time and fairness but some people are not like me and try to take advantage of me. I am very aware of those type of people and spot them ...

I am not like everyone, I am my own unique person as is most everyone. So when looking for your Dom/Domme please realize we are different. We all are in the BDSM scene for different reasons. Decency should always be first. A simple hello is sufficient for some, for others there is a tribute. Please all be decent to each other we are all human and decency will carry you a long way. I always try to be decent to others if they are decent to me. Sending dick Pic's before saying hello. I do not li...

I am just taking my time trying to find the best subby and paypiggies for me. I am not the typical give me, give me, give me type of gal. I want a good connection whom I feel really comfortable with and they with me. That is how I work. That is why I do not take everyone and anyone. There is a thorough search and find system that I seek . Although if you are a try it out and see where it goes person I can do that too. We just need to be open about that situation. I believe communication is key. ...

So today was a real time session. I was not feeling real well but my good little sub recognized it and gave me a body massage. It was excellent and I thought this is heaven because I never even had to ask. He just took upon himself to help me to relax. I love my subbies learn me quickly and know what I want and need. So to real time sessions, they are the best!

So I am sitting and relaxing thinking about tomorrow and all it entails. Tomorrow everyone is in love. Being in love is great but accepting that your single and your greatest love is yourself is even better. I love my husband and would not change my life for anything. But for those who are alone onV Day just be ecstatic that you can be yourself and do what you love. I am very lucky to have a husband who allows me to do the things I enjoy. He helped me put together my dungeon for my real time se...

So this weekend I decided a change needed to happen. I began by picking the new wall colors. I went with Grey and a Maroon accent wall. I think this will look amazing. I can already for see what can happen to the dungeon as I close my eyes. I see a St. Andrews Cross, a spanking bench,  and a cabinet to hold all off my wonderful gear. A nice comfy chair to set my derriere upon.`I have my eye on an ottoman I want.  Things are definitely looking up. More subs and more playtime and doing more events...

These past couple days have been of waiting and wanting. The waiting period for the new subs I have come. There and ication is a good thrill for me. I love feeling there skin to see the reacrion as I had different implements move across there bodies. Each one of them reacted differently , one had he shiver bumbs . The other one more stoic but by the end of the two sessions each one was exhausted and ready for more. I gave them assignments and hopefully I will get them soon to add to the Bedtim...

These past couple days have been of waiting and wanting. The waiting period for the new subs I have come. There and ication is a good thrill for me. I love feeling there skin to see the reacrion as I had different implements move across there bodies. Each one of them reacted differently , one had he shiver bumbs . The other one more stoic but by the end of the two sessions each one was exhausted and ready for more. I gave them assignments and hopefully I will get them soon to add to the Bedtim...

I had a sub today write me the best story. I love reading the stuff they come up with. It gives me insight to their desires and wants. Plus maybe some creative new ideas. This story was creative and was about one of my favorite subjects. CBT. So here is the yummy parts of the story. The sub on his knees bowing before Mistress begging to kiss her feet. She grabs him by the hair to pull him onto the cross. She hangs him up but the arms and feet. She puts the hood on his head and begins...

Today I got my new look. Nails done, hair cut, and new lipstick. I feel brand new. Just like I am new to this website. Although not new to the lifestyle. I am a feminist at heart and believe that women are far more superior than men.  women have been running the world ever since I can think of. Men may have been in the limelight but behind every good man is a woman who is telling him what to do. But enough about men. Today was a new beginning for me as I intend to make my life full of subs who w...