MistressAutumn

Here's the thing: training dogs is easy. Training men is easier. It takes a firm hand, a little bit of patience, and a vision of making the trainee a better version of themselves.  Imagine wearing a leather collar with a little metal ring at the front center and a nametag that says, IF FOUND, RETURN TO MISTRESS AUTUMN. These tinkle as you move, reminding you of your place. And your place is on the ground, on all fours, patiently waiting for orders.  I've had a lot of success with clicker train...

There's just something about fetish wear, isn't there? It's certainly what comes to mind for a lot of people when they hear the words, "Dominatrix" or "FemDom." They picture me or any one of my fellow ladies in skin tight black latex, heavy makeup, and high heels, brandishing a bull whip. It's sort of a stereotypical Domme look, to be fair. I'm even guilty of painting the same mental picture from time to time. But that's not all of us. Not at all. A lot of the Dommes who I chat with don't ev...

. Recently, in chat, one member asked if he belonged on this site or not. What if, at the moment, he didn't have a penny to spend - but he did spend when he could - was this still the place for him? I am of the mind that if you don't ever spend, then what's the point of being in Findom at all? That kind of behavior makes you an observer at best, and not a true participant in the kink. And if you're not actually participating in Findom, then why be on a site called Findoms.com? ...

We all have dream jobs, don't we? Something that we would love to do, if only we were sure it could make us money somehow? Some of us are artists, writers, chefs, collectors, gamers, philanthropists, travelers... you can be anything and wish that you could make a living from it. But reality sometimes has other plans. For me, that passion is Domination. It drives me every day. If I'm not creating, editing, writing, or posting content online, I'm surely brainstorming what I can do next. I love ...