Mistress Alexxxia

It's safe to say that financial domination, being a Domme, and/or serving a Domme can mean many different things for a person's mental status. Some seem to fill the need for a purpose in life. Some do it to fully exert the confidence they have welling up inside, and there are others that try it to seek out the missing gap in their everyday life. There are a million ways to dominate and a million ways to submit. However, this one particular week, I came across two examples of what actually chills...

So last night, I suppose I broke ground as a Findomme: I was able to collar My first slave online. With how sporadic most subs/"subs" had interacted with Me across various media, I knew I was going to have to put this one to the test before having him graduate to being My fully-owned pet. I met this precious little pig on Twitter, and after one session I had him completely hooked on me. He became my game/coffee bitch, paying for his losses in Words with Friends and for My lunches and lattes ...

((So I've been tinkering with a fun little game that I think would be entertaining with the right piggies. Have a read below and let me know what you think!)) This game is a lot like the hit game show. If you don't know to play it MY way, here's how: ...

I'm sure I need to explain. As a Domme, I hold a lot of expectations in my subs. I expect them to be wholly consumed by the need to satisfy and spoil me, to respect me and show humbleness. If I sat "jump," I expect them to ask "how high?" or get their asses in gear. However, there is something that I expect in anyone that I own. When I finally own a sub/subs of my own, I don't want them to be one-dimensional zombies. As much as I would expect to be their whole meaning of existence, why the...

A good sub: 1.) Remembers his owner's/superiors' honorific titles. Princess, Goddess, Mistress, Miss, Queen -- I don't care what it is. Remember to show respect. 2.) (By extension of #1) Always shows good manners. Greet us well. Politely dismiss yourself when/if you are going to sleep. If the Domme insists, watch your mouth as well. No cursing unless she deems it acceptable. ...

[ If you wish to find yourself at the feet of your Princess, worshipping the very ground she walks upon, there are plenty of ground rules that need to laid out and beaten into your thick head before you even consider contacting me. Press on if you have the balls to. ] - WHO I AM - My name is Princess Kay. You are to address me as such, "my Princess," or "my Goddess." Using my appropriate honorifics and always putting them to use is one thing I require any and all subs, paysluts, human ATMs...

This week marks my third... month in being a financial Dominatrix. It's been a crazy journey getting to where I am now but getting involved in this area of kink has opened up so many doors for me and helped me discover who I am as a person involved in kink. I've been involved in the BDSM world since I was around 20, so around five years. I spent hours researching the psychology behind it all. I looked to my partners for experimentation. And until recently, all of this accumulated into a 2.5 y...

This assignment is for the piggies out there that have the balls to read this. If you don't think that you can handle a nice, thorough mindfuck, you need to evacuate, press that "Back" button, and resume scrolling through your mediocre porn and hollow orgasms. If you are owned, you need to leave immediately -- do NOT disrespect your owner to keep skimming this. If you wish to proceed, learn one thing and one thing now. Your cum. ...

I already know what you're thinking the second you open this: where is this going to go? Insta-dommes are seen as a huge annoyance to the findom crowd. Girls that pop up out of nowhere after reading about the subculture of the kink community for five minutes, making a Twitter/Tumblr/whatever account, and start heavily plugging the "fuck you, pay me" status updates like madwomen. Because of this, in a way, I've seen such an ugly stigma toward ANY new Dommes that suddenly appear or those that h...