Mistress Paradoxe

So last time I updated here was January blogwise and March status wise....so yeah, it has been a while. But good news! I graduated!!!! So as I said in my last blog, a lot of things were distracting me and taking up literally all of my time. And then summer came around and I realized I had no idea what I was talking about in the spring when I said literally. Taking courses over the summer, I probably set a record for the number of classes taken over a summer semester, and I was working from ...

I just wanted to update everyone - yes and I am still alive and well and still in the scene! The main reason I haven't been as active on here is honestly because I am a bit consumed with all the political goings on in America at the moment, and I don't think I can really prevent it from spilling over. I try not to be political on here. It's not part of this world for me and it would make me uncomfortable to have that be a part of this world. Aside from that, I am also in school and taking...

So I've been a bit absent from the site lately, and part of the reason for that is I was in DC this past week! I attended the Women's March on Washington. I had been planning with a friend that whatever happened in the election we would be there, either watching a woman being sworn in as president for the first time or protesting Trump. It was a memorable experience. I had posters made, we had more friends join us, and even though standing in crowds absolutely sucks it was worth it. But one...

So, being the super nerdy domme I am, I am about to write a post that was actually inspired after watching an episode of Star Trek: Voyager. The episode was called "Prime Factors" and what struck me about it was its commentary on the nature of hospitality. In the episode, an alien race was supposedly famous for their hospitality in that star system, but even the IMDB episode blurb more accurately describes them as hedonistic. What this all came down to was that they were a race who derived t...

Well I've been away from the site for a little bit, but I am finally done with my busy week. During the last two weeks, however, I have been dealing with a small conflict with one of the subs I have. The basics of the situation: I caught the sub in a lie, or at least him not telling me the full truth of a situation. ...

No - not that kind of sick, you sicko. But don't you wish? To be honest she is probably both meanings of the word. This is your time to prove yourself, little sub. Your Mistress is sick, and even in her weakened state she can still crush your will and send you halfway down to bankruptcy and back. ...

To all who interact with me be warned. I am used to a certain lifestyle. It is such a huge part of who I am financially, I had to put it in my profile. I am young, but I DO NOT NEED YOUR MONEY. I come from an upper-middle class family and have always lived a cushioned life. Do you even know how stupid I think you look when you think that $20 is a lot of money? ...

DISCLAIMER: before anyone gets really nitpicky about my post, I think we are all able to understand this post does not apply to situations of blackmail, TPE, etc. Obviously every dynamic is different, and I am only talking about my preferred kind of dynamic. I'm also kind of brain dead from working on my bachelors thesis so hopefully this came across coherently lol So this post has been a long time coming, I was just waiting for the moment that felt right to lay it all out. ...

An interesting observation for me being a fresh face to the findom scene. Luckily, I haven't gotten this vibe off of this site at all, but on certain other sites, there is a culture of shunning the newcomers and automatically discrediting their legitimacy. I find it extremely unfortunate. From my observation, it is possible those people are just insecure in their own abilities as a domme, and don't take well to competition. On this site, I was greeted with warm welcome, educational and art...