It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a kinky man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a Findomme. Not every player and payer in the Findom community is dragging around a fat wallet. Regardless, those with shallower pockets can get creative and find ways to sacrifice. Quite often the sacrifice is just as enticing as the cash. I personally adore it when a man finds ways to save his pennies just so I can enjoy more. It says that I am worth the sacrifice. It says that he i...

please im begging you with all my heart i want to go into debt for you ...

If I had a dime for every message I received that just says “Hi” or “Hello, Mistress”, I’d be dripping in diamonds by now. Those are horrible first messages, gentlemen! First of all, I’m a Findomme so financial play is the cornerstone of my fetish world. To catch my attention, your opening line should be, “Miss Jean, here is a tribute for $XXX.” By giving an introductory tribute, you’ve proven yourself to not be another timewaster. You’ve also shown that you understand the nature of thi...