Madama Miiska

This must be something that gets discussed all the time, but I felt the need to put metaphorical pen to paper as I'm feeling restless. As most know, at the heart of BDSM is that beloved mantra; "Safe, Sane & Consensual". It rings true in everything w/We do, so that whatever our (legal) kinks may be, w/We can practice and enjoy them safely without fear of unwanted damage or a looming lawsuit over s/Someone's head. For Me as a pro-Domme, at the very top is safety. Horrific stories of kidna...

Time and time again I hear snippets of horror stories; I hear of "submissives" wasting valuable time and effort, I hear of "Dommes" scamming people out of unthinkable sums of money.  As a newcomer to the professional BDSM scene I personally find this to be a massive hindrance. I spoke to someone today, a genuine financial submissive, who spoke of times past on the FinDom scene. It was a time of murky yahoo chat rooms, no pictures exchanged, a time where you knew the women you spoke to were g...

I understand that this is probably the subject of writings all over the net, time and time again. I imagine there's probably a blog somewhere very similar to this, but I can promise I've not read any blogs regarding this subject (as I tend not to browse blogs) and any similarity perceived is purely coincidence. If it's exactly the same by some wild chance then I will change Mine to avoid any upset. But regardless of the multitude of outcries certain people still don't listen, or take the t...

Let's talk about FinDom. FinDom is something I personally offer among other things, but time and time again I, and many other Findommes out there get abusive messages telling Us we're a "parasite" that We're "scum" and that We're bringing "a bad taste to the mouth of BDSM". Thing is, I think this is absolutely ridiculous. ...

At first this may come across as a sob-story, but I promise this is positive. It might surprise many to hear this, but until a year or so ago, I was a different person entirely. Shy, retiring and quiet, I went through life as a true wallflower; someone who's worst nightmare was talking to strangers or God forbid talking to strangers alone. I was one of those (for some obscure reason unknown to me) relentlessly bullied children, through all stages of my education and then again at home, s...

Recently I had my first paid webcam experience as a Domme, and I believe it went well... ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ...