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A few years ago, the concept of making every element of life into a game was popularised as method of improving human output. Businesses used gamification to increase productivity or drive up sales. This was achieved through non tangible rewards such as badges achieved on a smartphone app and the idea of 'levelling up'. Aside from industrial purposes, gamification was a means to keep us present and improve our experience of life. Like anything that focuses on immediate sensations of reward...

The numbers game and the exchange of power releases a special feeling of satisfaction within my body. The sensation arises from the my lower abdomen and rises up my spine to climax at the top of my head. Neurotransmitters in the reward centre of my brain are released and the knowledge that I am taking even more control over another person is intoxicatingly pleasurable. Recently, another sensation awakened within me. I have a loyal finsub who I have interacted with for some time now. The o...

Love it or hate it, one must admit that male genitalia is not considered aesthetically pleasing to the general population. Still, for some reason men have it in their minds that sending a self portrait their naughty bits will entice feelings of sexual arousal in the (often female) recipient. Let's put this one to rest. NO, NO, NO, NO, NO! If she replies with a compliment, she's lying. If she asks for more, she's probably not even female. Now that's out of the way, let's talk about abou...

About a year ago, I wrote a blog post discussing the start of my BDSM journey. At the time, I was reluctant to use the word ‘fetish’ due to all the stigma surrounding it. Instead, I referred to a specific like as a ‘kink’. While there is a clear difference between the two terms, ‘kink’ is often (and incorrectly) used to denote a ‘fetish’, in order to make it seem socially acceptable. Let’s first provide some official definitions. A kink is an activity (with an erotic intent) that moves b...

The single, most common message I receive from random submissives usually occurs as follows: Hello Mistress/Goddess/other reverent identifier, I am a (negative adjective) submissive who craves/yearns/wants/needs a beautiful/hot/gorgeous Mistress/Goddess like yourself to serve. I have a chastity device for my pathetic/useless (negative adjective) dick. It makes me so hard when i look at your photos. Please force me to pleasure you and take me with a strap on. Do you think I’m pathetic? ...

Satisfying a desire evokes a slightly different physical and emotional response for each person. I often receive detailed messages from submissives, outlining how a particular fetish makes them feel. It most cases, the sensations from submissives I have been in contact with involve a sexual component. My own desires and feelings of fulfillment are quite different. Satisfying my kink gives me an endorphin and dopamine kick that does not involve my genitalia. The sensation starts at my ...