I have been fortunate enough to be owned by Miss Dakota for over 4 years now.  As might be imagined, there have been many ups and downs in our respective worlds (we live in different parts of the country).  We chat and talk most days but, of course, there are times when that is not possible.  I don’t like those times! 😉 Miss Dakota is an integral part of my life and while there is never any doubt who the leader is in this relationship, I like to believe that I am a pretty important part of her l...

It has now over two years since I began serving Miss Dakota, and without question, She has changed my life for the better.   Before finding Miss Dakota I was not very focused either at work or in my personal life.  She has given me a reason to focus, a wonderful Goddess to concentrate my thoughts on.  I believe I have become much more disciplined in my work which has been reflected in my annual evaluations.  Also because of Miss Dakota I am more confident than I was in dealing with people ...

It was six months ago today that I began my service to Miss Dakota.  It has been absolutely wonderful!  For me anyway, and i do believe for Her too.   I never could have imagined when we started exchanging messages here on Findoms six months ago, that She would not only take over my world but that we would also forge such a strong bond. ...

For those readers that have kept up with my series of blogs, you will know that I have been with wonderful Miss Dakota since October 1.  She truly is my dream come true and on Christmas Day She took me under Her permanent Ownership.  This submissive pet has never been happier!   It’s not an exaggeration to say that Miss Dakota has changed me in the 3 months or so since She first made contact with me.  She has dominated me in subtle and not so subtle ways but it’s always for the better.  I ...

So here we are at the end of another year – goodbye 2018 & hello 2019!   Yet for this submissive pet, out with the old and in with the new happened 3 months ago!  That was when my dream Goddess, Miss Dakota sent me a message and turned my life inside out and upside down and I wouldn’t want it any other way :heart:  Three months on, and Miss Dakota is now my Owner and i love every moment with Her.  Thank You my beautiful Goddess, my Ruler, my Owner. ...

Yesterday on Christmas Day, Miss Dakota gave me the greatest gift and made me Her Owned submissive boy :)   I could not be happier, nor more grateful to Her for making me Her’s.  ...

Last week, I was sick.  It started on last Tuesday afternoon at work and when I got home, I crashed out on my recliner for a bit of a snooze.  This is something I never do.  Unless I’m sick.   Then I woke up and I let Miss Dakota know I wasn’t feeling good and She leapt into action!  Straight away She asked me what my symptoms were and then She gave me a list of things to get and told me I needed to call out from work on the Wednesday. ...

These are some thoughts I have had from conversations with Miss Dakota & others.  Not attempting to tell anyone what or how to do things, it’s just my thoughts.     ...

In an earlier blog (Discovering More ) I wrote a little about the Chastity Device I acquired after Miss Dakota added it to my Amazon list.  I was going to write “at Her suggestion” but then I thought “at Her instruction” was more appropriate but now I don’t really which it was!   I think this is part of the genius of Miss Dakota.  She makes  things seem like a suggestion but they somehow carries the force of an instruction.  Or maybe that’s just my insatiable desire to please Her.   Anyway...

I just have some random thoughts and observations :) Humiliation - Findom seem to attract subs strongly into humiliation.  Why is that?  I don’t have the answer.  All I can say is that I am not remotely into being humiliated.  To me, findom is about handing over power to a Goddess in the form of financial tributes and gifts.  I don’t find that at all humiliating.  Pleasing Goddess is all that matters to me, making Her smile and making Her feel happy and powerful.   While I understand many g...

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(This blog may be shocking to some of you.  I apologize in advance  :)  Also no criticism or judgment is intended of any other member who may enjoy some of the things I will be writing about.)   If you have read my previous blogs, you will know that I am lucky enough to have the awesome Miss Dakota as my Goddess.  She does not do Cam sessions and I am absolutely fine with that. ...

In my last blog I recounted some of my earliest online experience with Femdom.  As I implied, back then in the 1990’s, Findom was not really in existence or certainly not in it’s present form (if it did exist, I had not encountered it).   I’m not really sure when I first became aware of Findom; maybe 5 years or so ago.  Certainly, when I was serving a Hypnodomme She sometimes produced versions of files that were explicitly Findom but I never bought those versions and she never asked me to....

One of the things Miss Dakota asked me to write about in my blog posts is “Past Experiences”.  So here goes…..   I have had submissive feelings for as long as I can remember.  I don’t regard myself as “old” but it’s hard to escape the fact that I have been around a while J  So it’s been a long time…..before there was access to the internet. ...

It’s been two weeks since I wrote my first blog post “Under Her Consideration” and I thought I would write about developments since then.   Miss Dakota continues to surprise and amaze me.  For my part, I feel I am falling more under Her influence every day and I love that feeling.  I adore Her more than I can express in words and She is increasingly dominating everything I think about.  One of the many things I love about Her is that every day there is communication with Her, no matter how...

For as long as I can remember I have had submissive fantasies and desires.  That’s a long time    I steered clear of Findom for a while.  It seemed kind of scary and not my thing so I thought.  I’m still not entirely sure it is my thing even now yet here I am.  A member of findoms for 3 years and currently very happily Under Consideration to a fabulous FinDom Goddess, Miss Dakota. ...

As the saying goes, “you never get a second chance to make a first impression”.  And that certainly applies to the first message between a Domme and sub.  It can be a bit of a leap in the dark.     I once got a message from someone that just said “Hey there dork”.  The sender of that message could not have known but that kind of message rubs me the wrong way so nothing was ever going to come out of that little exchange. ...