easily led

In my last blog I recounted some of my earliest online experience with Femdom.  As I implied, back then in the 1990’s, Findom was not really in existence or certainly not in it’s present form (if it did exist, I had not encountered it).   I’m not really sure when I first became aware of Findom; maybe 5 years or so ago.  Certainly, when I was serving a Hypnodomme She sometimes produced versions of files that were explicitly Findom but I never bought those versions and she never asked me to....

One of the things Miss Dakota asked me to write about in my blog posts is “Past Experiences”.  So here goes…..   I have had submissive feelings for as long as I can remember.  I don’t regard myself as “old” but it’s hard to escape the fact that I have been around a while J  So it’s been a long time…..before there was access to the internet. ...

It’s been two weeks since I wrote my first blog post “Under Her Consideration” and I thought I would write about developments since then.   Miss Dakota continues to surprise and amaze me.  For my part, I feel I am falling more under Her influence every day and I love that feeling.  I adore Her more than I can express in words and She is increasingly dominating everything I think about.  One of the many things I love about Her is that every day there is communication with Her, no matter how...

For as long as I can remember I have had submissive fantasies and desires.  That’s a long time    I steered clear of Findom for a while.  It seemed kind of scary and not my thing so I thought.  I’m still not entirely sure it is my thing even now yet here I am.  A member of findoms for 3 years and currently very happily Under Consideration to a fabulous FinDom Goddess, Miss Dakota. ...

As the saying goes, “you never get a second chance to make a first impression”.  And that certainly applies to the first message between a Domme and sub.  It can be a bit of a leap in the dark.     I once got a message from someone that just said “Hey there dork”.  The sender of that message could not have known but that kind of message rubs me the wrong way so nothing was ever going to come out of that little exchange. ...