Curvy Miss Q

*Just a note before I start,I wanted to use a picture for this blog that was relevant but my computer is having issues downloading and saving photos at the minute* I know sounds crazy right?!   Of course they should be well mannered and show me their true submissive side but being a submissive is more than merley nodding your head and saying yes Miss or no Miss to everything  ...

Want to serve ? Want to be owned? Want to be taken seriosuly and trusted? These things have to be earned! These things take time and effort,I will not let just anyone serve me,I will not just own you it is a process,it is about trust and commitment,you have to show me you can be trusted,that you can do as you have been asked  You have to impress me and show me you are worth my time,ownerhsip and service are things that are not entered into lightly,there is no set or specific time scale in ...

Words are cheap and have no meaning to me with no actions behind them or to back them up I recieve messages asking to serve me,asking for sessions with me,offering me money and so on but until I have recieved anything I won't take any of them seriosuly let alone consider you in any way,if you want my time and attention I need to see that you can deliver ,a promise alone will never be enough ,you need to show me it is not all empty gestures It is easy to tell me what you think I want to hea...

 Submission is more than a title,it is a state of mind ,it is something to be embraced and explored  Submission is also a gift and should be handled with care,it is a bond between 2 people,when a sub approaches me they are putting their trust in me,they are opening up and showing me a side they may feel they can't show any one else,they are embracing their true self,they are trusting me to not abuse them or judge them,it is a wonderul gift to give and recieve  Submission is not something t...

Whether you are dominant or submissive things are often a 2 way street Honesty is something that is of high importance to me,I expect any sub that contacts me to be 100% honest about everything from kinks to hard limits,how much they can afford to tribute and everything inbetween,however it works both ways,I can not expect that honesty without returning it,I like anyone have likes and dislikes,there is things I will not do and ,I have limits,if I feel the sub is not a fit for me or that I don...

Everyone has their own likes/dislikes,has their own boundaries and limits,not everyone likes the same kink or enjoys the same fetish  Each Domme sets her own rules and does things her own way,not all subs like to be called names or want to be humiliated  It is not a one size fits all scenario,kink is not generic,not everyone wants to serve/be served in the same way ...

There are plenty of ways to save,cut back and have more money to send and spend on your Domme Shopping-Make a  list and stick to it,go for a cheaper brand,stick to what you need,keep your eye out for special offers Bills-Can you switch suppliers for energy for a cheaper tariff? Can you cut your phone contract down? ...

I love all things kink,I never judge anyone based on what they like,I will always try new things and I am very open minded but... I will never talk down about another woman,put her down in any way  it is a big no no,I support other women and my fellow Dommes ...

I understand how hard it is for subs,I know how nervous you feel especially when you start to feel submissive thoughts and feelings or when you notice you enjoy a particular kink and fetish,I know how hard it must be to approach a dominant woman,I know it seems scary,it may take a while to find the courage to type that inital message and even more scary when you hit send but don't let it scare you,it could be the first step into something amazing I know it seems scary to want to understand mo...

I learned some things pretty quickly when I started online from social media and from some other amazing ladies online,one of the biggest things I learned was not to waste my own time,seems obvious doesn't it! I would see (and still do) the term time waster been used,I have used it myself but as someone pointed out to me,you only allow them to waste the time you give them You make the rules,you decide how much of your time you want to give away,you decide the point where you feel it has to...