Mistress Charlotte

Serious question, do submissives think that Domme's don't talk to each other? And NO I do not mean gossip, I mean do they not think we as peers do not form genuine and sincere friendships outside of kink as well as inside kink?   I am not the type to personally go around and whisper unsolicited advice in someone's ear if I think a submissive is worthy of their time - different strokes for different folks. However, if another Domme comes to me as a peer or as a friend and asks me - I will g...

I had a bad habit of taking it too personally when I thought there was a line of healthy communication and a sub would flake without a word. Not because of the money, money can always be made. There's always another sub dying to take that place. But because it’s rude, it made me angry.   I’ve come to realize though over the years, past that cliché “it’s their loss” mentality - why am I expending my precious emotions on another person who just proved they’re unworthy of them in the first pl...

   Hi new Dommes, I seem to have an influx of messages seeking advice / how I did this or that to get where I am. I’m flattered you see me as successful and inspiration. But I don’t have the time to sit and coach you lovelies, let alone always giving my time for free. My time is money after all!      Success starts with educating yourself, there’s an arsenal of information here alone for you, and the Internet is full of even more. My best advice is if you read something on Buzzfeed that sa...

I generally don’t open up to “strangers” on the internet about the intimate details of my life and journey. But I feel like I should to offer perspective on why I am the way I am as a dominant woman.   Some of my submissives closer to me that have earned trust and respect from me know a little about my experiences and the manifestation of Charlotte. But this is a brief (as the full story would be a multiple volume length novel) summary of how I became the woman I am and the domme that I am...

Trust and respect are just as important as consent in a healthy d/s relationship. There are some people out there in our community even - that think that being a submissive means that they will do anything a dominant says. Just because they aren't a real submissive if they don't. But that’s not how a healthy d/s relationship works, it’s a two way connection.  Submission is not something given lightly. Submission is usually only given to those that are deserving of that level of trust. The key...

”A spider’s web is stronger than it looks. Although it is made of thin, delicate strands, the web is not easily broken.” - EB WHITE [Charlotte’s Web] I returned from my hiatus profoundly more confident - I knew rejoining the community would prove to be substantial and purposeful. Not only for me as an individual, but for my life. I felt like I was going back to my home of sorts, my comfort zone; where I thrive and feel eager for better things. Upon my resurrection to fetish work, I found that...

I want you little boys to learn some good beside manner.    Meaning, while I, Mistress Charlotte, am stuck in bed... I expect you to mind your manners and keep me entertained.    ...

Where did Charlotte go?    Well, I am still here. But not here. For the next 12 weeks at the very least I begin a chapter in my vanilla life that will also impact my kink life.  ...

Welcome to my official Adopt a Bill blog/log.  Since I returned from my hiatus, I have been paying my own bills and you want to pay them for me. I shouldn’t have the burden on my freckled shoulders of paying these. That’s your job, right?  Up for grabs:  ...