Bianca Rayvenne

As a Findomme I'm consistently learning new things. New fetishes, new techniques, and new everything. What I didn't realize at the beginning of my Findom journey was how much I would change as a person. I've become more caring, more self aware and aware in general. I've become the best possible version of myself - or so I had thought. Something that changed about me that I'm finally discovering is a lack of being able to be vulnerable. Findom hardens us all a little I think- as it should. We ...

Last night a newer sub came to me and told me that he was depressed and that he was considering suicide. He and I have not been talking very long but I never take threats of suicide lightly no matter the situation.He told me he was having money problems and that he can't serve me since he knows I won't take him on for free. He then kept telling me how depressed he was but that he wanted to serve me until he figured out his financial problems.I told him that it's not all about the money for me an...

I've been thinking about this for a little while now, and while I LOVE findom and everything about it, I'm just not in the right head space right now for any of this. It took me a little while to recognize the fact that I'm not thinking clearly and that my mood swings are affecting the way I approach things. I'm taking a hiatus from Findom because right now I don't feel like I can do my subs or my slaves any justice in the state I'm in. ...

I wanted to take some time out of my schedule today to talk about Blackmail, or as I like to call it: Paid Delayed Humiliation. Every single day I get hundreds of messages from men wanting me to blackmail them. Every day I get hundreds of messages telling me that I *Have* to blackmail them to get a tribute. I will not do that. Not ever. ...

Refusing to do a session doesn't make me fake. Refusing to accept your tribute does't make me fake. Refusing to take you under consideration doesn't make me fake. ...

Girls who think that Findom is just easy money couldn't be more wrong. If this is the mindset you have - you are wrong. Of course there is the potential to make money but it takes constant effort. You have to know graphic design. You have to know html. You have to know how to make and edit videos. You have to know social media inside and out. You have to learn and keep learning about fetishes and everything in the bdsm world on top of the ins and outs of having subs serve you online. You have...

When I look at Findom I don't just see dollar signs. I see relationships, friendships, and long term genuine selfless servitude. Of course there are always time wasters and fakes - but at the end of the day when you do you - you'll always come out on top. Findom is financial in nature but it's Strict BDSM down to it's very core. You can serve your Domme online and you can make her life easier and better. If you're able you can serve your Domme real time and make sure that her house is clea...