the silent member

i recently had to fill in a medical form and to my astonishment was faced with seven options when i reachef the question of my gender.Several of them i have never even heard of. And i wonder where all this is going to end up. Especially when you consider the possibilities for persecution in the more traditional cultures just as homosexuals were persecuted not all that long ago.  One might wonder from a purely biological perspective how you can have more than two genders. And in fact if you ta...

In 1967 the legendary John Cleese was part of a sketch comedy series called At last, the 1948 show. The cast also included fellow Python Graham Chapman, Tim Brook Taylor from the Goodies, and the late great Marty Feldman.  In a documentary about his life many years later John Cleese recalled Marty Feldman always talking about the internal logic of a comedy sketch. The example given was that you could have four people dressed as pink elephants and that was fine. But if you added a man in a sui...

We are all familiar with the term topping from the bottom. The practice of so called submissives attempting to gain their way from a submissive position by deliberately misbehaving to receive thr punishment they crave, or using the rituals associated with obedience and worship to encourage or elicit a desired response that feeds their fantasy. Now it occurs to me that most things have an opposite. Ergo if some people can top from the bottom then others can bottom from the top. In theory....

Recently i posted a blog suggesting that we need to examine more closely the meaning of words commonly used here such as fetish, and determine by what criteria something qualifies as such. Now i would like to come at it from another angle. For many individuals here Female Domination is more than a fantasy, it's a lifestyle choice. There are a significant number of individuals who live this way of life 24/7, jobs and careers notwithstanding. And for such people it's a perfectly normal way of...

i recently commented on an excellent blog posted by Goddess Serenity. Basically the point i raised was that we need to more clearly define certain words that are very commonly used here. i would like to explore this in greater detail, specifically in regard to the word fetish. In my comments i said that many on this site claim money as a fetish, and yet most of us love and even crave money. Especially when we don't have any. ...

i have observed that the approach taken by subs commenting on blogs and posts here can be broken down into three categories. First there are the nasty ones. Rude, disrespectful, and outright insulting. They seem to lack any real grasp of what we are about, and fortunately do not last long. This blog is basically concerned with the other two categories. ...