An age old debate...
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For me, the simple answer--certainly within SSC--is that the sub holds veto power. I don’t like that logical consequence but I think it necessarily follows.
Depending on the dynamic/relationship, it doesn’t mean that exercising that veto is necessarily without a cost. That “cost” can be emotional ... View more
I personally think its a mix between the two a sub will set the boundarys and domme will push them
Each dynamic is different, but essentially there are many factors. Things such as personality traits, natural conditioning, past experiences and play, as well as numerous other variables exist on both parts. There are many situations in which set risks and rewards fall in a limbo; I believe W/we cou... View more
It's a relationship when it's a genuine power exchange. Yes, the Domme moves the pieces, because the sub has given her the power to in his stead. But if it's a good Domme, she will be aware and mindful of how her sub is feeling, and not push past his limits. If one side is silenced and ignored, it's... View more