Feel free to include your perceived solutions to what may be holding you (or other submissives) back, in the comment section.
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I think what usemedrainmeleaveme is looking for is a sugarbaby not a findom? Unless I am missing something?
None of the above. Work pressures and responsibilities as a carer for an elderly parent leave me with little free time. When I do get free time i'm usually so exhausted I don't feel like doing much. I barely keep in touch with my own friends at the moment, let alone have time for D/s interractions.
@Finderella, yes I think you are missing something. Dominance is about having the power to make someone want to serve you. That can be done in many different ways, it doesn't necessarily involve acting bratty or mean, though many like that. It's possible for Dommes and subs to have genuine friendshi... View more
I agree @Nemo there are all types of Dommes & also submissives. Some are short term and others are committed. The committed doesn't just happen or it wont last in my experience. You have to treat this dynamic just like any other relationship: the trust, adoration, loyalty builds over time. I find th... View more