Questions to ask yourself as a sub.

Questions to ask yourself as a sub:Are you both kink compatible?Will you treat them with the upmost respect, trust them, and communicate with them? Will you prioritize them? Will you work with her to craft a dynamic that is equally rewarding to both of you?Did you research her fees? Are you willing and committed to remunerate them for their expertise, time and attention? Will you behave respectfully and be grateful for her time? Will you be consistent? I always say - submission is a choice you make. Submission is entrusting someone else with your power. Submission is not "I want to be pegged", "dom me", "can I be your sissy bitch?"... <span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"> -That kind of conversation has nothing to do with submission and FemDom. </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">You can have all the kinks you like - it doesn't make you submissive. You need to make that choice and act accordingly. </span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"></span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">So, when you come from a place of entitlement, making demands, and you fetishize and objectify Dommes, is that FemDom? No, it is not in my opinion</span><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"></span>When you only like the idea of a dominant woman because it fulfills your fantasy - that is not FemDom. When you claim you respect women but speak to them like the above examples - that is not femdom. When you react with aggression and violence when a woman is not sexually available to you - that is not femdom.<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;"></span>