That's what

Haha. I think one of the most important facets of any relationship is friendship. Not only is kitten and I, sub and Domme, we are best friends. We joke around and enjoy ourselves. It comes naturally as well. There is no pretending, no trying to please (on my part). There is just effortless - connection. I have found that friendship, can also be shared with subs that are unowned. Though at times it gets difficult, because those unowned subs definitely need guidance that they're too scared to seek out. And I've also befriended owned subs. I make sure their owner know I have my own property, and even if I didnt - wouldnt be interested in someone else's pet. But friendship is the base of what makes a long lasting connection. I am thankful for all that I've been able to attain in my life. I married my best friend and submissive, and found another that gives his all to me. It is so rare in our online community.