For those readers that have kept up with my series of blogs, you will know that I have been with wonderful Miss Dakota since October 1.  She truly is my dream come true and on Christmas Day She took me under Her permanent Ownership.  This submissive pet has never been happier!   It’s not an exaggeration to say that Miss Dakota has changed me in the 3 months or so since She first made contact with me.  She has dominated me in subtle and not so subtle ways but it’s always for the better.  I ...

So here we are at the end of another year – goodbye 2018 & hello 2019!   Yet for this submissive pet, out with the old and in with the new happened 3 months ago!  That was when my dream Goddess, Miss Dakota sent me a message and turned my life inside out and upside down and I wouldn’t want it any other way :heart:  Three months on, and Miss Dakota is now my Owner and i love every moment with Her.  Thank You my beautiful Goddess, my Ruler, my Owner. ...

Last week, I was sick.  It started on last Tuesday afternoon at work and when I got home, I crashed out on my recliner for a bit of a snooze.  This is something I never do.  Unless I’m sick.   Then I woke up and I let Miss Dakota know I wasn’t feeling good and She leapt into action!  Straight away She asked me what my symptoms were and then She gave me a list of things to get and told me I needed to call out from work on the Wednesday. ...

In an earlier blog (Discovering More ) I wrote a little about the Chastity Device I acquired after Miss Dakota added it to my Amazon list.  I was going to write “at Her suggestion” but then I thought “at Her instruction” was more appropriate but now I don’t really which it was!   I think this is part of the genius of Miss Dakota.  She makes  things seem like a suggestion but they somehow carries the force of an instruction.  Or maybe that’s just my insatiable desire to please Her.   Anyway...

I have been wanting to write more regularly on here and I thought this might be a perfect way to kick things off. I wanted to write something as a bit of a reflection on my experience thus far exploring findom. So I was (and to some degree) still am pretty intimidated overall. I do my best to swallow that fear and use it as motivation to educate myself. To take things slowly and on my terms. Read & research first and act afterwards. I've spent a lot of time just reading & watching the few vid...

I just have some random thoughts and observations :) Humiliation - Findom seem to attract subs strongly into humiliation.  Why is that?  I don’t have the answer.  All I can say is that I am not remotely into being humiliated.  To me, findom is about handing over power to a Goddess in the form of financial tributes and gifts.  I don’t find that at all humiliating.  Pleasing Goddess is all that matters to me, making Her smile and making Her feel happy and powerful.   While I understand many g...

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(This blog may be shocking to some of you.  I apologize in advance  :)  Also no criticism or judgment is intended of any other member who may enjoy some of the things I will be writing about.)   If you have read my previous blogs, you will know that I am lucky enough to have the awesome Miss Dakota as my Goddess.  She does not do Cam sessions and I am absolutely fine with that. ...

It’s been two weeks since I wrote my first blog post “Under Her Consideration” and I thought I would write about developments since then.   Miss Dakota continues to surprise and amaze me.  For my part, I feel I am falling more under Her influence every day and I love that feeling.  I adore Her more than I can express in words and She is increasingly dominating everything I think about.  One of the many things I love about Her is that every day there is communication with Her, no matter how...

As the saying goes, “you never get a second chance to make a first impression”.  And that certainly applies to the first message between a Domme and sub.  It can be a bit of a leap in the dark.     I once got a message from someone that just said “Hey there dork”.  The sender of that message could not have known but that kind of message rubs me the wrong way so nothing was ever going to come out of that little exchange. ...