I recently started a poll on #findom twitter asking others opinions on "loving" your Dom or sub. I was surprised to see the difference in responses for that poll. One of the responses was "falling in love is setting yourself up for heartbreak" ...

You are new to this kink. You are so excited. Look at all the wonderful Dommes and subs available. You are in heaven. What do you do? How do you start your first Domme/sub relationship? What should you expect from it? There is no set rulebook for a Domme/sub relationship any more than for any relationships. All are different.  ...