I occasionally get messages and friend requests from dommes although my profile, header page, icon, and so forth are clear on my status, Owned! For brand new dommes, I can chalk it up to inexperience. Perhaps they are not familiar with domme etiquette.  And maybe the message will sink in as a new domme has her subs approached by other dommes. For the few experienced dommes that approach me, they know better or should know better. I will leave it up to our hostesses if they should be banned...