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Have you found me, little one?
The Domme of your dreams?
The one you least expected to come?
As I show more than I seem.
Subtle yet Domme
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Back in the day, of old school online BDSM chatroom, there were certain rules of etiquette. These rules helped establish roles and beginning training. Unfortunately, some of these have become quite relaxed in use.
The use of capital and lower case when addressing someone or your own name/pronouns indicated the role of submissive or Dominant. A Domme would never use a lower case "i" to refer to their self, that lower case indicates submission. Nor would their names be lower case.
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Whilst looking at different profiles on various platforms there seems to be a plethora of payment systems subs can use to tribute their Domme. But still it seems quite common for subs to (perhaps stupidly) ask if they can tribute another way to those suggested in a Domme’s profile. I was wondering if this is because the sub is having to hide certain ways of paying from others in their life or if they felt their personal information could be mis used. So my question is - is there a payment platfo...
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I think the allure of the findom world attracts many people for different reasons. I guess I can't really speak for all dommes or subs however I think the issue is when: How do I know I'm speaking with someone genuine or at least share the same intentions. Am I speaking with a sub who is actually going to do deliver what he is promosing and not waste my time? Am I speaking with a domme who is going to provide what I need or ghost me after my tribute? It's even more frustrating when you google ab...
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I learned some things pretty quickly when I started online from social media and from some other amazing ladies online,one of the biggest things I learned was not to waste my own time,seems obvious doesn't it!
I would see (and still do) the term time waster been used,I have used it myself but as someone pointed out to me,you only allow them to waste the time you give them
You make the rules,you decide how much of your time you want to give away,you decide the point where you feel it has to...
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I've been neglecting my self care for a month or so. Yesterday, I decided to get a pedicure as well as a manicure. There are times when a Goddess can be overworked, and simply need that time alone. No subs, no real life, just that Me time everyone eventually needs. Yesterday for about an hour was my Me time. However, once finished it provided a wonderful opportunity to exploit and use my property for my own pleasure.
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We know men are visual creatures. Do we take that into account when we post pictures? What do your pictures say about you? What message are you sending to subs? How does that picture impact them or how they can serve?
Everything we post should send a message. Each one is advertising us. Before you post a picture, ask yourself, "Is this how subs should see me and does it reflect my style?".
Be aware of your surroundings. One of my biggest pet peeves is bathroom pictures. Clean the mirror, ...
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The moment I made these subs chance me for my time the whole concept of findom as a real powere exchange blew up with more success than I thought possible. See when I first come online I seen so many “gotta catch em all” dommes that I was gobsmacked. It appeared to them that was the only way to succeed.
News flash. This isn’t a get rich quick scheme. It really is work. However, when you find that sweet spot of a steady income on your own and draining these subs for just the right amount to sc...
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As of July 15
As the months roll by, I find myself running out of things to say. Mistress Pauley's Orgasm Denial Program is now a part of my lifestyle. I take it for granted and do not know how I would manage without it. So I will talk about the psychology of Orgasm Denial.
The psychology of Orgasm Denial has three parts:
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As of June 15, 2019
Well, 13 months isn't bad. I am very used to going without. Of course, I would not go without on my own, but with Mistress Pauley's strict Orgasm Denial Program, it is easy to do without. In fact I don't often think about it. But when I am so horny from going without releae, I bow before Mistress Pauley and worship her with gratitude.
I go without for Mistress Pauley because it pleases her. In turn, it makes me more aroused and more generous with her tributes, gifts and...
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"Why is he here if he is owned?" is something I was asked about my owned sub. I have a few reasons for allowing my submissive to remain on this website.
1. They can answer questions, other subs may have, about me. Those prospective subs may be too shy to ask me but might approach my sub. Yes, subs do talk amongst themselves.
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Loyalty means so much to me. It is an important characteristic of any relationship, whether BDSM or vanilla. Seems few understand the meaning. Fealty should be given for a relationship to flourish and grow.
loy·al·ty /ˈloiəltē/ noun
the quality of being loyal. a strong feeling of support or allegiance.
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