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Many Dommes love Halloween. Tricks and Treats galore this holiday. Little subs will be bewitched under our spells. Sexy costumes make tease and denial that much sweeter. Speaking of sweet, the treats we receive are devilishly tasty. Spooky how much you will want to tribute this month.
This challenge is for unowned subs to sink their fangs into. Seek out six Dommes that have a haunting enchantment over you. Of the six, pick three to send cash and three to purchase gifts off their w...
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After sitting down for a drink with a frequent client before his long flight out, he says “You can talk a mile a minute when you are nervous like the first time we met. I am used to women being that way with me. Yet the moment you wanted to keep me, you were so quiet. You turned observant, spoke softly with every command, and yet the power just sent chills down my spine.” He shivered.
I laughed and deliberately played with the umbrella in my drink. I sat silently for three seconds and then ma...
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Written words are powerful. They can arouse emotion. A simple word choice can change the reader's mindset. For this, one should pay attention to options. I notice many posts using the word "need" where the word "desire" would be the better alternative.
Need is something basic, an absolute necessity. We need food, air, sleep, shelter, etc.. These are essentials. A Dominant should be able to provide for themselves. They should have control of their requirements.
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I have been with Mistress Pauley for 6 years. In the beggining, she would only take a little bit of tribute or gifts from me, then she would cut me off. There were no bill payments allowed at all. I, of course, quickly developed a strong desire to spend more. This is NOT typical of other dommes, if you are brand new here.
Then, very, very slowly, she allowed just a little more spending. I jumped on that gratefully and spent more as she allowed. Over the 6 years, this has continued, slowly inc...
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Low self-esteem can affect subs and Dommes. It can increase or decrease over time. None are immune to lfe changes. Fortunately, there are ways to feel better about yourself. Here are some tips to improve your self-esteem:
1. Do and be your best self. RuPaul said it best, “If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” Start with your self. Be less critical. No one is perfect, perhaps close. Learn to accentuate the positives and fix or accept your negatives. Try...
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So it is almost Loktober and I know how easy it is to get excited about showing off your number of locked subs. I have more than a few myself. Each one with their own exposer fantasies as well. However, there is one thing that bugs me and I don't believe I am in the only one who feels this way.
I don't want to go to every site on the internet involving the kinky world and get flashed by a caged penis I didn't ask to see.
There are classier ways to expose these pets. Adding emoji's over sai...
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Point One:
If you are that sad that you are going to troll or intentionally attack or harm another human being, Please go seek professional help.
There is a difference in terms of hurt and harm. Hurt can be repaired, hurt can be fixed with aftercare. Harm, can not be fixed. Harm takes a psychopathic and narcissistic person to pull off.
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I'm feeling a real loneliness recently, more often than not.
Since my live-in slave moved out, I've had a hole in my world. We parted amicably and out of necessity, and I'm more than ready to meet someone long term. I plan on doing an online only relationship right now, but I hope it can develop into more.
How have you coped with the loss of a BDSM relationship vs a monogamous "vanilla" one? I've found that many methods are similar, but moving on is a bit harder.
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On September 8, 2013, I messaged Mistress Pauley here in findoms. I went on about how I could not serve anyone, it was too expensive and so on. After I finished the message, I realized it was entirely too long for someone who was not going to serve. I then sent another message and I have been serving Mistress Pauley since. Now, my first period of service was "come and go." But after March 2015, I committed to serve Mistress continually and have been serving her ever since. We now have a Slave Co...
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On September 15, 2016, Mistress Pauley put me on her Orgasm Denial Program. I had to go off in February, 2018 for medical reasons giving 17 months of not being allowed to release. I then went back on Mistress' Orgasm Denial Program in May 2018 and had to go off again in August 2019 for medical reasons, giving 15 months of no release.
Now I am thinking that I should not set complete abstinence from release as a goal. Due to occasional medical problems it is apparently not realistic. So I am th...
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Today I took another step in my total submission to Goddess by asking Her if we can install Team Viewer (TV) on my machine? Without any hesitation She said yes, which did not surprise me as we had discussed this in the past. I downloaded and installed the program. Goddess then asked for the id and password which I turned over immediately. I saw my background go grey and the TV window pop up on my screen in the upper corner. I knew that Goddess was now in ...
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